Being An Introvert In An Extrovert's World

Being An Introvert In An Extrovert's World

How to survive in the communications field as an introvert.


When I was in high school, I was fairly extroverted in my behaviors. I was almost always hanging out with someone, even if it wasn't a close friend. Now that I am 24, the only thing that sounds relaxing is sitting at home in bed, while watching Netflix and drinking an ice-cold Coca-Cola.

If I had to choose one reason why I chose to enter the communications field was that I knew it would be challenging for me, but a kind of challenge where I am able to achieve the goals I had set out for myself and the goals that were set out for me.

Here are some survival tips that I have learned throughout my college experience while seeking a Communication's degree.

Always be aware of your facial expressions.

I can honestly say that I am the Queen of RBF. People look at me and think I'm annoyed or mad at them when in reality I'm probably daydreaming about Krispy Kream Donuts.

A good way to start becoming aware of your facial expressions is to practice them in the mirror. Practice smiling in the mirror and make sure you are dramatizing the smile. If you feel awkward doing it, then you're doing it right.

Try to find your niche of people.

Once you begin to take the classes that count towards your actual degree, you're going to see a lot of the same faces. Become familiar with a couple of people and sit by them when you can. This will make it easier for you to feel more confident.

Try to raise your hand at least 3 times every class. 

When your teacher asks the class a question and you can hear crickets, raise your hand to break the silence. For me, this was, and still is, the hardest thing I've done...because what if you get the answer wrong? Chances are if you get the answer wrong, your teacher will just appreciate you for raising your hand.

Of course, you're going to have those days where raising your hand to answer a question will literally ensue a panic attack, but that's okay! Everybody has their off days, just make sure to jump back into your routine once you're feeling it again.

Use group projects as a way to do your networking.

Chances are that you will one day work with the people that are in your groups for projects. When you are meeting with your group for planning meetings, make sure you are building positive relationships with them. You never know who you will come into contact with in the future, so always display your best traits in these groups.

Take time for yourself still. 

If you are an introverted individual, being around people will wear you out eventually. When it does, take the time you need to rejuvenate and relax. Ways that I like to relax after really long days is through bubble baths or, if it's nice weather, just sitting in the sun.

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To The Girl Who Isn't Graduating On Time, It Won't Feel Any Less Amazing When You Do

Graduating is something to be proud of no matter how long it takes you.


To the girl who isn't graduating college "on time,"

I promise, you will get there eventually, and you will walk across that graduation stage with the biggest smile on your face.

You may have a different journey than the people you grew up with, and that is OKAY. You may have some twists and turns along the way, a few too many major changes, a life change, you may have taken most of a semester off to try to figure your life out, and you're doing the best you can.

Your family and your friends don't think less of you or your accomplishments, they are proud of your determination to get your degree.

They are proud of the woman you are becoming. They don't think of you as a failure or as someone any less awesome than you are. You're getting your degree, you're making moves towards your dreams and the life that you have always wanted, so please stop beating yourself up while you see people graduating college on time and getting a job or buying a car.

Your time will come, you just keep doing what you need to do in order to get on that graduation stage.

Your path is set out for you, and you will get there with time but also with patience. The place you're at right now is where you are supposed to be. You are going to thrive and you are going to be the best version of you when you graduate and start looking for a company that you will be proud to work for. Don't look on social media and feel less than, because at least you're still working towards your degree that you are finally passionate about. You will be prepared. You will be ready once the time comes and you cross the stage, move away, and start your journey in whatever field you're going into.

Don't question yourself, and be confident in your abilities.

With love,

A girl who isn't graduating on time

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Goodbye School, Hello Real World

I'm ready for ya!


It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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