Let me first say that young love can come in so many forms. Keep in mind that no two loves are the same! This is a difficult concept to comprehend, but over time you will learn!

DON'T

Don't be in a hurry! Let things come organically in a relationship. This can be a difficult thing sometimes, especially when you like to be in control (can relate!) Instead of trying to force steps and intimacy, be in the moment and let those things come.

Again, overthinking kills everything! Go with the flow, be present with your partner, and do not be afraid to try new things. Romanticizing your dates may help, and you could also try to take a few deep breaths and let go!

Be afraid to say no. Before getting into a relationship, set personal boundaries for yourself. This can be anything, from where you are willing to go with a stranger, to what you are wanting to do physically. You should also talk about relationship boundaries with your partner.

DO

Be bold. People are drawn to confident individuals. Take a leap of faith and jump into young love! You will go through a million heartbreaks until you find the right one. Remember that everything happens for a reason, you've got this!

Communication is key. This sounds cheesy but is so vital to any relationship. Talking about your concerns, fears, day-to-day activities, and emotions is so crucial to a healthy relationship. No detail is too small!

Honesty. I cannot stress how far honesty can go in any given situation. If two people are not honest with each other in a relationship, there is no possibility of a strong foundation. Vulnerability can be difficult, however, honesty makes relationships real and worthwhile.

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