10 Thoughts To Get You Through Today

10 Thoughts To Get You Through Today

If nothing else, you've made it this far.

Everyone has those days when they just need a little bit of inspiration. Sometimes I just need to see or hear something that gives me a little bit more motivation to keep going or get something done. And I don't mean those cheesy posters painted with pastel colors that say vague things like "This too shall pass" or "You're beautiful." Because when I'm struggling, I honestly just find those to be somewhat trite and annoying. So, without further ado, here are ten things that I find to be pretty inspiring.

1. For when you're feeling overlooked:

Sometimes I pretend to be the fries at the bottom of a MacDonald's bag, or the leftover $10 bill in a back pocket. You may go unnoticed at first, or for quite a while, but when people notice you, or finally acknowledge everything you do for them, it will be a glorious moment for everyone involved. This doesn't mean that being ignored is a good feeling, or that being under-appreciated is something we should strive for, I'm just saying that even if that's happening now, it won't always be the case.

2. This one's for the women:

We all know that feeling of dismissal because we're women. We're ignored, disrespected, made to seem weak, etc. I'll spare you the feminist rant, but I will remind you that women are frequently compared to deadly things like black widows and poisonous snakes. Ships are referred to as female. We're powerful and dangerous. We keep society afloat and running. And honestly, let's just acknowledge that women have to deal with a lot more crap than men. So give yourself a pat on the back for being so strong and dealing despite all of it.

3. For moments of doubt:

You are way stronger than you think. Seriously. You’re the only one that has to be there when you’re really struggling. You’re the one that consistently picks yourself up and decides to carry on. People can talk to you about your problems, and they can try to help, but at the end of the day, you're the one that gets it done. You're the one that faces up to the depression or anxiety for one more day, you're the one that goes back to that job you hate, and you're the one that nurses the broken heart back to health. If you saw all of that in someone else you'd admire their strength. Admire your own.

4. On body shaming:

Our culture body shames. This isn't news to anyone, and it happens to men and women alike. So please just take a moment to appreciate your body, no matter what it looks like. It carries you around every day. Your heart beats, your brain keeps you alive. You’ve been sick and bounced back, you’ve gone through years of life, and you've done who knows how many strenuous things with that body. And and it still works. It runs. Just take a moment to be grateful for that body before you go back to hating it for not being skinny or muscular or whatever.

5. On Performing Life:

This just in: you don’t need an audience to acknowledge you. Seriously. Live your life. You don’t need the approval of social media or anyone else. And I know our generation grew up with this, this performance, and we were taught that we could be anything, say anything, and that people would care. So we feel like we have to perform, to compete with everyone else's lives. But you don't. If you love taking selfies, that's fine too. But don't be afraid to unplug, spend less time consuming media and just live your life without caring about whether or not some faceless audience approves or "likes" it. If you're happy and healthy who cares what their opinions are.

6. On The Future:

I've mentioned this already, but life is stressful, and growing up is hard. People expect us to have all the answers at 20 years old. I don't, and thinking about all of that stresses me out, sometimes even gives me a headache. You know what else gives me a headache? Staring at the sun, a computer screen in a dark room, or snow when it's really sunny. So I've come to the conclusion that thinking about the future gives me a headache because it's just so bright. This applies to you, too.

7. Life is a story.

People always say your life is a story. It's one of those clichés like how your life is a journey. Stories have tons of characters— some major, some minor. You know who you are in your own story, and you know who your current supporting characters are, but you don't know who you are in someone else's story. You could be that minor only-mentioned-once character that says something that turns their life around or makes their day. Of course you could also be someone's nemesis, but maybe try to be the first one.

8. On Other People's Perceptions:

You guys know when someone is just insanely talented? Like, they're an incredible painter or amazing at guitar, or maybe they're just really witty and always have hilarious jokes to tell. Everyone knows people like that, and if that person were to compliment your painting, or laugh at one of your jokes, that would be a win, right? That would feel amazing, to be complimented by that person. But you are that person to someone else. That's important to remember.

9. On Overwhelming Ignorance:

I don't know about you, but sometimes I just get overwhelmed by the amount of ignorance and just lack of compassion that exists in this country. So if you’re ever feeling despair about how ignorant people are, just remember that there was a time when men thought women couldn’t ride in trains because if they went that fast their uteruses would come flying out. Or that people once believed that if you heated a woman up, she would become a man. So we’re making progress. Slow progress, but progress nonetheless.

10. Today's A New High Score

If nothing else, you've made it today. And when you think about how stressful and difficult life can be, that's pretty impressive. When you consider that our generation grew up in a world of school shootings and terrorist attacks, of economic recession and the suicide epidemic, when you think about how under-diagnosed and stigmatized mental illness is and the negative stereotypes "millennials" have, it's impressive. You've made it this far. Today is a new record for consecutive days alive, and you've beaten your high score. Well done. Seriously.

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To The Girl Struggling With Her Body Image

It's not about the size of your jeans, but the size of your heart, soul, and spirit.


To the girl struggling with her body image,

You are more than the number on the scale. You are more than the number on your jeans and dresses. You are way more than the number of pounds you've gained or lost in whatever amount of time.

Weight is defined as the quantity of matter contained by a body or object. Weight does not define your self-worth, ambition or potential.

So many girls strive for validation through the various numbers associated with body image and it's really so sad seeing such beautiful, incredible women become discouraged over a few numbers that don't measure anything of true significance.

Yes, it is important to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, it is important to take care of yourself. However, taking care of yourself includes your mental health as well. Neglecting either your mental or physical health will inflict problems on the other. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that you're too heavy or too thin, which results in you possibly mistreating your body in some way.

Your body is your special, beautiful temple. It harbors all of your thoughts, feelings, characteristics, and ideas. Without it, you wouldn't be you. If you so wish to change it in a healthy way, then, by all means, go ahead. With that being said, don't make changes to impress or please someone else. You are the only person who is in charge of your body. No one else has the right to tell you whether or not your body is good enough. If you don't satisfy their standards, then you don't need that sort of negative influence in your life. That sort of manipulation and control is extremely unhealthy in its own regard.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior. You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your jeans. It's about the size of your mind and heart. Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone and stretch mark. Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire. Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window. Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.

So, as hard as it may seem sometimes, understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world. Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

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Buying New Clothes Every Month Has Been The Key To Helping Me Become Happy With My Body Again

Loving my body in new outfits has boosted my self image so much.


Being body-positive has been really hard for me to do throughout 2019, despite there being an overwhelming surge in body-positivity around me, whether through my friends and family or YouTube. I look in the mirror and what I see is someone I want to make a jean size or two smaller like in the past. That being said, I've slowly been coming around to accepting the body I have now, instead of bashing it constantly. A key way I've come to accept the body I'm in now is through buying myself something new every month, like a new T-shirt or a pair of jeans or sneakers that help me see myself in a positive light. When I'm in a new outfit, I feel invincible. I don't think about how pudgy my stomach is, or about the hair I have growing in random places, like my neck or on my nose (yes, not just in, but ON too).

My bank account tends to suffer as of recently because of this, but it's worth it when I can genuinely feel good in what I am wearing every day. I like to wake up and think about how many outfits I can put together, ready to post my #OOTD for Snapchat without caring what anyone thinks. I've let social media dictate how I feel about myself more than I care to admit. I see how perfect all the models are in everything they're wearing from brands I know and love, yet when I try the same thing on, it's a whole different ugly story.

I don't enjoy trying things on to avoid the shame I feel when things don't fit me right, or if something that I thought would flatter me actually makes me look like a sack of potatoes. Instagram has really hurt my body image a lot — enough to make me delete it for a week after one post sent me spiraling. Going through those bumps made me finally realize it's not my fault if something doesn't fit. Sizes range depending on the item, it's the clothing items fault, not mine. Now that I see that, it's easier to brush off something not fitting me as it should. I know my size very well in the stores I frequent the most, so it's easier for me to pick out things I know will look good and not have to worry about the sizing issue.

Buying yourself something new is not something you should limit to every few months or longer. You shouldn't be afraid to go out of your comfort zone price wise every once and a while either. Coupons exist, stories always offer you them when you first sign up to receive emails and even texts. You can be crafty and still get a high price item for less. If you treat yourself to cheap things, you won't feel half as good as you want to. Granted, sticking to a limit is important but there's no shame in going over the limit every once and a while.

I love shopping as much as I love country music and writing short stories — a lot. Yes, I get yelled at almost every time I get something new. I need to save my money for important things, like for my sorority or for medical issues that could suddenly arise, or for utilities at my house next year off campus.

However, my mental well-being is not something I can ignore.

I can't push the good feelings aside to save 30 or 40 bucks a month. I don't want to feel as low as I've felt about myself anymore. I'm tired of feeling sad or angry at who I am, and I want to learn how to accept myself as I am. Buying myself something new, like clothes, is what offers a positive light to view myself under.

Whether you treat yourself to dinner at your favorite restaurant, or to face masks, or to a new movie when it comes out — don't be afraid to do it. Put yourself first and you'll realize your worth and how much you've been ignoring it in the face of poor confidence.

My confidence isn't back up to where it used to be, but it's getting there.

It may not be the most cash efficient method of self-love, but my body positivity is better than it was a few months ago. Aerie and American Eagle have really helped me become happier with my body, and I can't thank them enough for being more inclusive for people like me who are learning to love themselves again in a new body.

There is a light at the end of the tunnel for all of us hoping to promote our own body positivity, and it could all start with a simple purchase from your favorite store after you read this.

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