10 Stages Of Getting Over Your Ex | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Sports

10 Stages Of Getting Over Your Ex

The emotional roller coaster known as a break up.

491
10 Stages Of Getting Over Your Ex

Almost everyone's been there. You're in a relationship, and everything is going perfectly. You couldn't be happier. Until it's not. When you go through a break up, you experience a whirlwind of emotions, and they probably stick around for a while. Getting over an ex is an emotional roller coaster, but it's just another part of life.

Stage 1: Crying. Lots of crying.

The break up hits you like a truck, and it feels like your entire world has just fallen to pieces. Crying is about all you know how to do right now.

Stage 2: Eating your feelings.

What better way to deal with the pain than by stuffing your face? Whether its ice cream, pizza, cookies, chocolate or just about anything else, food is always the answer.

Stage 3: Denial.

No, it totally didn't happen. We're totally still together. That was just a dream...right? Wrong.

Stage 4: Food and friends.

This is when your friends get involved. Any and all distractions are welcome, usually in the form of food and retail therapy.

Stage 5: Cuddling your stuffed animals.

You miss the intimacy and the comfort of having someone to cuddle with. Obviously. So who better to fill this void than your favorite stuffed animals? At least you know they'll never leave you.

Stage 6: Anger.

You're over the hurt. Now you're just mad. How could he do that to you? After everything you've been through together? Honestly, he's just the worst person ever. Ugh.

Stage 7: Coming to terms with it.

This is the stage when you can officially start telling people you're OK and meaning it. You're not totally over him, but you're making progress. And to you, that's all that matters.

Stage 8: Getting his memory out of your life.

His number? Deleted. Social media? Unfollowed. Pictures together? Gone. Basically every sign that he was ever in your life is gone, and you couldn't be happier about it.

Stage 9: Rebound.

Probably the most dangerous stage, beware of the rebound. You will want to talk to any and every hot guy you encounter, so go for it. But be careful, and don't do anything that you wouldn't want to do if this wasn't just a rebound.

Stage 10: Finally feeling fully happy again.

You've officially made it. You're over him, and not looking back. The feelings of hurt are all gone, and you're finally happy again.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

664378
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

561030
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments