September 10 marked the beginning of the NFL season with the kick off between the Pittsburgh Steelers and the New England Patriots. As young boys and "big" boys across the nation cheerful prepare for the return of their beloved sport, wives and girlfriends are left to feel deserted on Sunday and Monday nights.
Its the time men wait for all summer and if you don't prepare wisely you will be left to come second to the game. Don't be that nagging girlfriend that he begins to resent because you can't understand he's "watching the game".
Just as the old saying goes, "if you can't beat em' join em'." If your significant other loves football, then, you love football. It couldn't hurt to join in and make the event a bit more special for the both of you. Watch parties have gained a lot of popularity and if you love to plan a party, this has your name all over it. Decorate your living room with your home's favorite team and be sure to have some good food!
Learning the game is the most important rule if you choose to give in. (Know who's playing!) Searching football for girlfriends open a range to dozens of publications explaining the game in the simplest form. Having a watch party and taking part in watching the game gives you bonding time with your boo without missing a beat because of the season.
Making the game an event could still keep your Sunday a family fun day but if your man ditches you for the bar then you move on to plan B. Instead of awaiting his arrival after all of his fun is done, you can have some time of your own. Create a weekly girls night out hosting different fun event with other abandoned wives and girlfriends.
Its always easier dealing with issues with others that know exactly how you feel. Make time for your own interest without interruption. Whether it be a book club, a real club, or shopping, plan an outing and enjoy yourself. You'll go from missing him to anticipating your next girl's night. Time apart does make the heart grow fonder, and leaving him to watch his game may just get you a few more cool points.
Let's face it, football is here to stay and if you want to be too, you must compromise. You can simply give in and enjoy the sport or indulge in your own pleasures. You could discover a new love for football or the new shoes you bought during your girls night. Either way, don't let the game cause a wedge between you and your significant other.
