Living Life One Day At A Time

Living Life One Day At A Time

And one mistake at time...

The pressures young students put on themselves to be "perfect" is insane and it needs to stop. Student work so hard so they can get the perfect grades to get into the perfect college to have the perfect job, but then what? Then they're suddenly happy? When they're wasting their time attempting to reach things that are unachievable they are allowing life to pass them by. Students put this tremendous pressure on themselves instead of just living one day at a time. Everyone has in their mind what college they have to go to, and are setting such high expectations for themselves. This leads to stress and a guarantee that at some point you will be disappointed. Obviously I believe that grades are important. I am not discouraging the idea that studying hard will lead to success. I just think there comes a point where there are more important things to life that worrying about grades.Therefore, I have generated a short list that depicts a few things that are more worthwhile than getting straight A+'s.

1. Spending a whole night binge watching your favorite Netflix show

2. Going out to dinner with family, despite the test you have the next day

3.Catching up with an old friend you have not talked to in a while

4. Spending the whole day in pajamas and cuddling with your pet

These are just 4 things that I believe are more fulfilling than being "perfect" in school. However, I will be the first to admit. I am not completely innocent when it comes to not worrying about school and grades. But I believe it is important to take a look at your life and remember that failing a test will not make or break your life. You are human. Mistakes are okay. Live life, as you are meant to, one breath at a time.

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A Letter To My Go-To Aunt

Happiness is having the best aunt in the world.

I know I don't say it enough, so let me start off by saying thank you.

You'll never understand how incredibly blessed I am to have you in my life. You'll also never understand how special you are to me and how much I love you.

I can't thank you enough for countless days and nights at your house venting, and never being too busy when I need you. Thank you for the shopping days and always helping me find the best deals on the cutest clothes. For all the appointments I didn't want to go to by myself. Thank you for making two prom days and a graduation party days I could never forget. Thank you for being overprotective when it comes to the men in my life.

Most importantly, thank you for being my support system throughout the numerous highs and lows my life has brought me. Thank you for being honest even when it isn't what I want to hear. Thank you for always keeping my feet on the ground and keeping me sane when I feel like freaking out. Thank you for always supporting whatever dream I choose to chase that day. Thank you for being a second mom. Thank you for bringing me into your family and treating me like one of your own, for making me feel special because you do not have an obligation to spend time with me.

You've been my hero and role model from the time you came into my life. You don't know how to say no when family comes to you for help. You're understanding, kind, fun, full of life and you have the biggest heart. However, you're honest and strong and sometimes a little intimidating. No matter what will always have a special place in my heart.

There is no possible way to ever thank you for every thing you have done for me and will continue to do for me. Thank you for being you.

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Goodbye School, Hello Real World

I'm ready for ya!


It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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