Praying For A Man Who Meets The Parents' Expectations For A Spouse

To The Man My Parents Say I Deserve, I Pray You Live Up To These Standards

You've got shoes to fill.


The man I am going to marry is the man I have prayed for a long time now. I have prayed for him now, prayed for his future and prayed for our future together. He is also a man I have dreamed about marrying and living my best life with.

Dancing in the kitchen at 2 a.m. Raising our kids together and taking them to church.

More than just what I want and have prayed for in a future husband, there are the expectations that my parents have for my future spouse. I interviewed my parents and asked what they wanted for me from my future husband, and how very different their answers are amazed me.

My Mom's expectations:

"A Godly man who loves you like Jesus loves us. Who TRULY loves you for the Godfearing and God-honoring woman you are! A man who can walk beside you and pray with you and pray FOR you! A man who 'loves you with genuine affection and takes delight in honoring you' (Romans 12:10) Also, He must love dogs!"

My Dad's expectations:

"Honest, trustworthy, respectful, inspiring, humorous, supportive and your best friend. Wealthy helps but if you don't have all that, the relationship won't work. Inspiring is very important, I think."

It amazed me how different these answers are. While my mom focused more on the God-fearing man she wants for me, my dad focused more on the classic idea for a future spouse. I am thankful for both of these answers.

So, to my future husband, if you're reading this — whether you know me yet or not — I pray you live up to these standards. I cannot wait to meet you, and I know my parents are excited to meet you, too.

Until then, I pray you prepare yourself for me the way I am preparing myself for you.

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5 Musts For When You Stay At Your S.O.'s Dorm

Sleepovers are fun, must rules are a must.


Spending the night with your significant other is one of the best parts about finally getting to college. You finally are given the freedom to sleep in the same bed all night and wake up in the morning to little kisses. Staying over at your significant other's place does come with many challenges of its own though. The slept in makeup, the lack of clothes for the next day, roommates, and overstayed welcomes all are realities of sleeping over at your significant others dorm.

Spending the night in college can be a difficult road to navigate and it's even more difficult when there are multiple roommates involved. No matter how many times you have likely spent the night with your significant other, you're sure to face some challenges of proper sleepover etiquette. These are a few of the rules of college sleepovers that should probably be followed in order to keep your significant other happy, roommates happy, and to get the most out of your sleepovers.

1. Their space is their space, as well as their roommates' 

Just like you wouldn't go to someone's house and take all of their stuff, you probably shouldn't do this in your significant other's dorm. Taking all of their food, or their roommates' food is not cool. Respect their space just like you would want them to respect yours.

2. Pack smart 

Spending the night with your significant other means loading up your contacts, solution, medication, clothes, pajamas, and the list goes on. Only pack the things that you'll actually need or else you'll be carrying around half of your room all day. And don't forget you can always borrow a comfy t-shirt from your significant other.

3. You still can say "no" if you don't want to do something 

Just because it is their room, you don't have to do anything that you don't want to. Know your own boundaries and be respectful of yourself, your significant other should always understand that.

4. Respect their roommates 

No, you cannot stay over at your significant other's dorm if their roommate says no. It is their room too and it's important to respect how they feel. Your best bet is to be kind and friendly to their roommate, and they'll probably let you stay over more often.

5. Know that you probably won't look like Beyoncé when you wake up 

No one wakes up with perfect hair and the full face of makeup. You should know that and know that your significant other will still love you when you wake up with your hair a mess and bad breath.

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