10 Ways To Focus On Bettering Yourself
Start writing a post
Health and Wellness

10 Ways To Focus On Bettering Yourself

It's not being selfish, it's a necessity!

533
10 Ways To Focus On Bettering Yourself
pinimg.com

Yes, helping other people and being there for others is important. Knowing in some shape or form that you helped that person is satisfying and makes you smile. We as humans all want approval from others. It gives us a sense of belonging and comfort. In this world it is hard to take a step back and reflect on yourself, because something "better" or "more important" is always occurring. It's time to start worrying about yourself for once in your life, and no, you're not selfish for doing that.

1. Take a "personal day."

This might not be practical, but this is necessary. After worrying about everyone but yourself there should be one day that is all about you. Get your mani/pedis on, (and yes if you are male this is even cheaper for you, so go). Buy your favorite drink at Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts. Make this day all about you.

2. Every morning look in the mirror and say, "I'm Awesome."

Give yourself that confidence boost every single morning, it's only fair to yourself. Throughout the day there are obstacles that are going to test your awesomeness, but guess what, you told yourself this morning that you are awesome.

3. Say "see you later" to those difficult friends.

It is not a goodbye, it's a see you later. Never burn the bridge with anyone because you never know when down the road you are going to regret that decision. Friends are there for you to make your life a better place, not make it more difficult. If you look down at your phone and see a certain name pop up, and you avoid that text like it's the plague, maybe the next text should be "see you later." The people that surround you are reflections of yourself, and if you need a moment to focus on yourself- take it.

4. Get that body you always wanted.

Pumping iron is not the goal here, but a light walk, a mile run or even a Zumba class will make you feel better about yourself the moment it is over. Focusing on your body is one of the main components. Exercise, dieting and meditation all make you take a moment and think, while also making you look and feel amazing.

5. Treat yourself to a 20-minute face mask.

There can be cucumbers for the eyes, or not, but that 20 minutes of putting a face mask from rite aid on is life changing. Try a Freeman beautiful peel off mask from the drugstore, or a Glam Glow facial mask from Sephora. You will feel like a new person after taking the mask off, with baby soft skin as a bonus!

6. Make your bed every morning.

Why would I make my bed every morning when in 12 hours I'll be laying in the same spot to go to sleep? It's a sign of having your life together. No matter what happens that day, you accomplished one thing. Also after a long day you deserve to go home to a made bed and a clean room. Taking care of things around you and in your environment will better you each and every day.

7. Set some goals!

Small goals, large goals any goal is something. An example is "today I am going to make myself dinner and not order out." It's a small goal but once it's accomplished it will make you feel good about yourself. A large goal would be a lifetime goal, such as "In four years, I want to graduate college with honors." looking forward to these goals will make you feel important and keep you focused on yourself following through.

8. #positive vibes only.

Take all that negativity and hate that you have built up inside of you and let it go. One of the best feelings in the world is when someone or something is at peace. The fact that there is no more worrying about a situation or no more hard feelings is an amazing feeling. Buy one of those meditation crystals (you can even throw them at people that are trying to give you negative vibes). Try to always remain positive throughout any situation.

9. Laugh a little.

Life can be so serious sometimes. Deadlines for work or relationships problems, there are so many headaches in this world sometimes you need to laugh. Turn on the TV and watch a comedy such as, "Happy Gilmore," or even the Presidential Election. I guarantee you will get a chuckle form one or the other!

10. Remember life is short.

After reading this article and using these tips, just remember that life is short. You only have one life to live and it's your life! If something doesn't make you happy, get rid of it. Something makes you sad, get rid of it. You want that promotion at work, strive for it. Everything in life tries to give you a challenge, it throws you a curve ball. Catch it- run with it and focus it toward you. You're not selfish, you're smart, strong and making yourself a better person.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

58499
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

37693
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less
Adulting

Unlocking Lake People's Secrets: 15 Must-Knows!

There's no other place you'd rather be in the summer.

959278
Group of joyful friends sitting in a boat
Haley Harvey

The people that spend their summers at the lake are a unique group of people.

Whether you grew up going to the lake, have only recently started going, or have only been once or twice, you know it takes a certain kind of person to be a lake person. To the long-time lake people, the lake holds a special place in your heart, no matter how dirty the water may look.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Top 10 Reasons My School Rocks!

Why I Chose a Small School Over a Big University.

193975
man in black long sleeve shirt and black pants walking on white concrete pathway

I was asked so many times why I wanted to go to a small school when a big university is so much better. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure a big university is great but I absolutely love going to a small school. I know that I miss out on big sporting events and having people actually know where it is. I can't even count how many times I've been asked where it is and I know they won't know so I just say "somewhere in the middle of Wisconsin." But, I get to know most people at my school and I know my professors very well. Not to mention, being able to walk to the other side of campus in 5 minutes at a casual walking pace. I am so happy I made the decision to go to school where I did. I love my school and these are just a few reasons why.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments