The Freshman Life

The Freshman Life

Follow me as I struggle through my first semester

A timeline of me in college:

First month in college:

Dear Mom,

I know this isn’t what you ideally want to hear as you wish me the best while I’m away. But, I figured I’d let you know how I’m doing. The first few days were miserable. Someone would say the slightest thing about you and it would take everything in me not to cry. I would think about the red van pulling off of campus and my heart would fill with sadness. I would yearn for another one of our late night talks. I wanted, and needed your physical support. Although I was surrounded by some of the most supportive people in the world that I knew loved and cared about me (shout out LCVB), It didn’t matter because none of them were you.

None of them had to pick me up from kindergarten crying. None of them had to watch me struggle to make friends in first grade because of how shy I was. When you left it really felt like kindergarten all over again. I couldn’t stop crying, and all I was thinking about was when I got to see you next. It was a euphoria because all these great things were happening to me and you weren’t there to witness any of them. It felt wrong. I got the opportunity to go to college, something I’m so lucky for. I was able to play on the volleyball team, something I’d always dreamed about, and I was still sad. The person I worked so hard to impress and make proud, wasn't there. I would be so happy, then I would be sad, then I would be confused because all these good things were happening, and I was so sad. As much as we fought and bickered and tested each other, I miss it. Also going through preseason of volleyball and it’s kicking my arse, my body is suffering and it’s not helping my struggle.


Oh my goodness mother I am thriving. I’ve learned to actually like school-I know, shocker. I love my friends and the town, the community, everything is great. Obviously everything isn’t perfect; I still get stressed and I'm terribly busy. But I can’t imagine being anywhere else and I’m incredibly happy with where I’m at in my life right now.

P.S. I still miss you, I just thought I’d fill you in and let you know that I’m no longer mentally terrified and exhausted. Also I’ll make an effort to call more, sorry about that.

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Shaun White's Glo Up: A Timeline

How World Famous Snowboarder went from Flying Tomato to Hot Tamale

Shaun White. 3X Team USA Olympic Gold Medalist. Half Pipe extraordinaire and (at one point) hair icon.

In past years, many recognized Shaun White as the "flying tomato," due to is naturally long, red flowing locks


Originally, White's hair wasn't totally out of control. He was a youthful snowboarder dude who had just won his first Olympic Gold at the Torino Games. At 19, his face was still that of a child, but inside he knew there was much more in store for the future. Not only in snowboarding, but his aesthetic.

Fast forward a couple years and White took his brand as the "flying tomato" to whole new level by stepping out in 2008 with natural beach waves that every girl wishes for.

Not yet, had White achieved heart-throb status, but like a Pokemon had started to evolve. This photo, taken just 2 years after his first Winter Olympic games displays White's face beginning to mature and street-style taking on new levels.

Though continuing to make a name for himself athletically in the skateboarding and snowboarding scene after the 2010 games, it was not until before the 2014 Sochi Winter Olympics that Shaun White came back into the public eye. And he had news to share.

With the loss of his hair came the loss of a chance to remain the best snowboarder in the game. At the Sochi Olympics, Shaun was unable to make it on the podium. In this transition from young to old Shaun was caught in an existential whirlwind.

Though his glo-up was coming full circle, he had not yet been able to become what he was meant to be. A hot tamale.

This past week, Shaun emerged, as if he had risen from the dead and won his third Olympic Gold medal at the Pyeongchang Winter Games. He had finally reached his peak. Finally, he had completed the evolution from "flying tomato" to hot tamale.

(I don't know if Shaun will ever coin the name, but if you're reading this Shaun, I just want you to know it comes from the heart).

Shaun White has graced us with beauty at the start of 2018 and I hope there is much more to come. His journey was long, strenuous, and painful. But, Shaun still remains one of the biggest athletes in the world.

Who would have thought that Shaun White could be one of the most recognized athletes without his luscious locks?

With athleticism, hair, and mature attitude on point. Shaun has graced us with the best glo-up. Will we ever know how he did it? Was it the hair? Was it style? Does he just age like a fine wine?

Whatever it is, work it Shaun.

You're doing amazing sweetie.

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America Is Still The Country With The Best Snowboarders In The World

More about the 4 Olympic gold medalists in 2018’s Winter Games.

From 17-year-old Chloe Kim, the youngest women to win an Olympic Snowboarding Medal, to Red Gerard, the youngest American to medal in a snowboarding event at the Olympics, 2018 is the year that American snowboarding competitors completely popped off. Jamie Anderson, 27, and the already 2-time gold medalist, Shaun White, also won gold for their incredible performances.

There is something special about snowboarding in the USA, and to learn more about what that is, we can evaluate these athletes individually and how their stories have influenced their gold medal triumphs.

Jamie Anderson (Slope Style)

Winning Gold in Women’s slopestyle, Anderson is the first female snowboarder to win more than one Olympic medal. She also won gold at the 2014 Olympics in Sochi where she becomes the first ever women’s Olympic Slope Style Gold Medalist.

Growing up in South Lake Tahoe, she started snowboarding at age 9. Because she was homeschooled, she was able to spend almost every day on the mountain. By the time she was 15, she became the youngest female medalist in the Winter X games earning bronze. Since then, she has won 4 gold medals in the Winter X games and a total of 11 medals overall.

She is one of the most decorated, and one of the best snowboarders in the world. She is well known for giving back to the snowboarding community through camps and non-profits. She does not only live to do good and share her opportunities with others, she lives a healthy and active lifestyle which she promotes on her blog. She does a lot of designing with clothing companies and snowboarding brands such as Gnu and Oakley. Her free spirit, love of the sport, and optimist helped her to “Connect with her lion power and find her feet” at this years Olympics. She has broken her elbow, cracked a rib, broke her collarbone, smashed her pelvis, and ruptured her spleen, some of which injuries she just endured last year. She felt “so happy” about the ability to defend the Gold because she has “gone through so much this year.”

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Chloe Kim (Half Pipe)

Kim is a first-generation American. Her parents are immigrants from South Korea, where the Olympics are being held, and some of her extended family still lives there. She has faced international attention because of her identity as a first-generation Korean American and has essentially become the star of the Olympics this year as well as continuing to prove her status as a breakthrough athlete.

She was born near Long Beach, California and she started snowboarding at 4 years old. At 6, she was on a snowboarding team. She trained in Switzerland when she was 8 until 10 years old. She started training for the Olympics shortly after. In 2016, she was 15 and too young to compete in the Olympics in Sochi, she became the first to win Gold in the Women’s Youth Olympics games. She earned the highest snowboarding score in Youth Olympic games history at the time. She was nominated at the 2016 ESPYS for Best Breakthrough Athlete.

Before she was able to compete in the Olympics, she started off her career at the Winter X Games at 13 years old, earning silver in SuperPipe then Gold the following year. In 2016 at the U.S Snowboarding Grant Prix, she became the first women to land back to back 1080 spins in a snowboarding competition. She scored a perfect 100 points and is believed to be only the second other snowboarder to do so behind Shaun White.

She may be young, but Chloe Kim accomplishes tricks that no other women in her sport can. She scored far higher than any of her competitors in the Halfpipe competition with a 98.25 throwing her back-to-back 1080s. For a young star, she is calm and funny, tweeting about how hungry she was right before her late morning run.

Red Gerard (Slope Style)

The youngest American to win a Gold medal in a snowboarding event at the Olympics at 17, Red Gerard was born in Ohio. The sixth of seven children in his family, he was snowboarding with his older siblings when he was 2 years old. His family moved to Colorado when he was 7 and built a terrain park in their backyard which they used for constant training.

He competed in amateur competitions until 2015 when he started his pro-circuit, finishing fifth in his Dew Tour slopestyle debut. This combined with his placement in fifth at the U.S Open qualified him for the U.S Snowboard Professional Slopestyle team. He came in fourth at the at this year’s X Games but had his first big win this year winning the U.S Grand Prix in Mammoth. And now he’s an Olympic Gold medalist.

Gerard’s Snowboarding career is still young, but his reputation as a snowboarder has been circulating. Oversleeping the morning of the competition because he was up watching Netflix, Red has an extremely relaxed attitude about it all. His families have been partying the whole time, and they have told media that they have never pushed Red to do anything. Even Red himself told interviewers that he never really cared about the Olympics, only Dew Tour, X-games, and the U.S open, which helped calm his nerves. Although he is extremely proud of his win, he doesn’t even know if he will continue competing in the Olympics when many other snowboarders have more freedom, fun, and make more profit starring in backcountry videos.

Shaun White (Half Pipe)

The three-time Halfpipe Olympic Medalist probably doesn’t need much explaining. He holds the most X Games Gold medals, most Olympic Gold Medals by a snowboarder, and has won 10 ESPY awards. He is also well known for his skills as a skateboarder and was the first person to compete in both the summer and winter X Games in two different sports.

Born in San Diego California, he was born with a congenital heart defect and had 2 open-heart-surgeries before he was 1.

Following his older brother’s footsteps, he switched from skiing to snowboarding at age 6 and had his first sponsorship at age 7. White has participated in 4 Winter Olympics and won Gold in 2006, 2010, and 2018. He has won a medal at the X Games every year since 2002. His medal count stands at 13 gold, 3 silver, and 2 bronze. He is the first snowboarder to land back to back double corks and has an extensive background of other achievements

Now to mention befriending Tony Hawk, the professional skateboarder, at the age of 9, which helped Shaun turn to pro skateboarding at 17.

Shaun is a 31-year-old athlete who, like Jamie Anderson, and unlike the younger snowboarder, has to deal with the pressure of maintaining success, but he takes it easy and does pretty well.

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