A Pledge For Adulthood

A Pledge For Adulthood

A few things that millennials seem to have forgotten.
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I came across an article in the Los Angeles Times, written by Chris Erskine, that talked about the "Millennial Pledge," (http://www.latimes.com/home/la-hm-erskine-20151010...) which I firmly believe every millennial should take before they take anymore steps into the life of adulthood, myself included. Instead of working to better our character and do things with our lives to improve the world we live in, we get caught up in wanting the latest and greatest products, and our egocentrism often gets in the way of trying to better ourselves as human beings. Erskine really puts things into perspective in this pledge, and here are some of the pledges that he suggests every reader puts into their life.

1. "I am entitled to nothing."

Something that I feel many people believe they are nowadays. However, that's not the case. You don't deserve something just because you think you do. Earn it if you want it.

2. "Just once, I will try driving without texting."

I know you've heard this before, but that "LOL" can wait for 15 minutes until you reach your destination. You don't need to risk your life and/or other people's lives for something as insignificant as a text message.

3. "Just once, I will try eating without texting."

I bet you can't even remember the last time you sat down and had a coffee with someone just to talk. Not talking over your laptops while you're studying at the 24-hr Starbucks. I'm talking about actually sitting down with your coffee, with your friend sitting across from you, and engaging in a real conversation. Try it. You'd be amazed at what you can find out about each other!


4. "I will learn to laugh at everything, especially myself."

I promise, this makes life so much easier...


5. " Each year, I will pen at least one thank-you note, using what's left of my cursive writing skills."

Did you know they stopped teaching kids how to write in cursive in school? There is nothing more personal than a hand-written letter, and a hand-written letter in cursive is going above and beyond. If you want to make someone's day, write them a letter, even if it's not the most convenient thing to do, or the fastest. However, it is the most meaningful.


6. "When I don't get my way, I will learn to roll with it."


7. "I promise not to misuse the word "literally." As in "I am literally dying of hunger," o,r "You are literally being so rude.""

I'm guilty of doing this, and I'm ashamed to admit it. It's a bad habit that I'm literally trying to quit... see, there I go again. All joking aside, this doesn't make you sound intelligent, and we all know that you're not speaking figuratively.


8. "If I can't afford car insurance, I won't spend $20 a day on coffee."

Oh look, here's another thing I'm guilty of doing, and I bet all of my fellow college students are guilty of, too! I know your 8 a.m. class is telling you otherwise, but do you really need that Venti, Quad-shot, Soy, Chai Tea Latté that's going to cost you $8.00?

9. "I won't give only gift cards for Christmas."

With the holidays coming up, this is something to keep in mind while you're frantically trying to get all of your Christmas shopping done. The only thing that giftcards say is, "Hey, I was too lazy to find something that you might actually like, so here you go, find it yourself." Put some effort into people's gifts this year.


10. "I will save 10% of everything I earn."

You won't even notice that it's gone from your paycheck, but in a few years you'll see it all start to add up.


11. "I promise not to text anything of life-changing significance: a marriage proposal, a divorce decree, a positive result."

... and I repeat, do not break up with someone over a text... ever.


12. "I will always remember Aristotle's quote: "It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.""


If you want to read the rest of the Millennial Pledge, click here and take your first few steps into the life of an adult. Happy reading!

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15 Things You've Heard As An Ice Cream Scooper

And the responses you wish you could have said...
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As many of you know, being a customer service employee can be exhausting. Sure, you may like working with people, but there's no doubt that you reach your limit here and there. Ice cream scoopers are a very specialized group of customer service employees who deal with people in their most vulnerable state: when they are craving sweets. If you've ever worked in an ice cream shop, here is a list of things you've definitely heard from customers, with responses of what you probably wish you could have said.

1. "I want cookie dough."

OK, seriously? "Cookie dough" is all you're giving me? Now I have to ask you a million questions about what size, what kind of cone, what type of toppings, etc. I know you may think I read minds, but I swear I don't.

2. "Just give me the regular cone. You know, the normal one."

Well, we offer three different kinds of cones. What's normal to me may not be normal to you. Chances are I'll scoop your ice cream into a sugar cone and then you'll look at me like I have ten heads because you expected a wafer cone *sigh*

3. "Can I try the vanilla?"

Are you kidding me?! I'm not sure if this is because you've never had vanilla before or if it's because you have a very critical opinion of vanilla ice cream, but either way... I suggest you take it down a notch. Your only excuse is if you're four years old.

4. "I promise, this is my last taste."

Is it, though?

5. "Oh wait, actually, THIS is my last one."

Yeah, that's what I thought.

6. "After all of these tastes, I won't have enough room to actually order a cone of ice cream!!!"

Extra points if you and your friends all laugh at the joke you just made.

7. "Is that one good?"

Honestly, does my opinion of ice cream really matter to you? Obviously, I'm going to say I like it, because I work here and it's ice cream, so yeah, it's good. What am I supposed to say? Should I tell you that I actually find that flavor repulsive and that it sort of tastes like soap? Probably not.

8. "Which flavor's your favorite?"

Let's be honest, there's a very high chance that our taste in ice cream is completely opposite altogether. So, when I say that the peanut butter chocolate is my favorite flavor, you'll probably smile and nod politely, and then order mint chocolate chip. Awkward.

9. "Just surprise me!"

No, no, no. Please do not put your ice cream order in my hands, that's way too much pressure. Also, I'm a terrible decision maker.

10. "Do you have chocolate ice cream?"

Nope! *Sarcasm*

11. "Which flavors are gluten-free, sugar-free, fat-free, and dairy-free???"

Why did you even enter this ice cream shop? Don't get me wrong, I'm sympathetic to allergies and sensitivities, but I have a feeling you're just being obnoxious.

12. "I bet your right arm gets pretty muscular, huh?"

Ha. Ha. Haven't heard that one before! Are you going to make the Popeye joke next?

13. "Could you just add some hot fudge on top of that for me?"

Listen carefully. If you ordered a kiddie size ice cream in a cup, and the ice cream fills the cup completely, where would there be room for the hot fudge? The answer is nowhere. I then have to transfer your ice cream into a larger cup that leaves room for the fudge, which easily could have been avoided if you had simply warned me of your fudge desires beforehand.

14. "It costs HOW MUCH?! I remember when a cone of ice cream was 50 cents!"

I don't make the prices. I, too, would love if an ice cream cone still cost 50 cents, but the unfortunate truth is that it does not, nor will it ever again.

15. "Oh, my gosh! I don't know how you work here and stay so thin! I would eat everything in the store!"

Oh don't worry, I DO eat everything in the store.

If you've ever said any of these things to an ice cream scooper, they probably made a joke about you to their coworker when you weren't looking. But it's okay, they immediately praised afterward as long as you tipped well. Ice cream scoopers are nice in nature, I swear. And they don't hold grudges!

Happy scooping!

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Thank You To The Best College Pals A Girl Could Ask For

You are probably some of the best people I've ever met. *We are always so busy living our lives that we don't have a picture of all of us together*

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To My College Pals,

You all are probably some of the best people I have ever met and I'm so thankful to have met you. You are always down to go on adventures with me and listen to me ramble about pointless things. From the multiple texts a day to tolerating me tagging you in literally every post I see, y'all are still friends with me. You deserve a huge thank you, so here it is…..

Thank you for getting ice cream with me when I'm crying over some guy. Thank you for always watching Gilmore Girls with me. Thank you for always being willing to crash my dates.

Thank you for always being willing to be the 3rd wheel on dates that I'm not entirely sure about. Thank you for giving me your honest opinion about my life choices. Thank you for helping me every time I move.

Thank you for showing me the "drive". Thank you for laughing with me until we are crying and our stomachs hurt. Thank you for taking hundreds of candids for me.

Thank you for showing me what it means to be myself. Thank you for going on some random and weird adventures with me. Thank you for listening to me complain about how I had to take astronomy.

Thank you for helping me pick out outfits for parties days in advance. Thank you for being my mom like 82.7% of the time. Thank you for teaching me that sometimes it is okay to eat dessert before real food.

Thank you for teaching me how to say "roses". Thank you for teaching me how to pump gas. Thank you for being cool.

Thank you for always being up to adventure on a sunny Sunday. Thank you for teaching me how to put air in my tires. Thank you for teaching me how to get cash from the ATM.

Thank you for proofreading texts for me. Thank you for making me feel better when my plans don't work out. Thank you for crafting with me until 2 a.m.

Thank you for always being down to go get food with me. Thank you for always sitting with me in the library at midnight while I'm stress crying. Thank you for letting me vent to you.

Thank you for letting me stay with you when it's supposed to storm. Thank you for always laughing with me when I do something funny. Thank you for encouraging me to venture outside my comfort zone.

Thank you for helping me set up my new iPhone X. Thank you for going on walks with me. Thank you for telling me that cute guy I met at that party isn't worth my time.

Thank you for making sure that I'm okay. Thank you for being honest. Thank you for swiping on my Tinder when I can't bring myself to.

Thank you for hitting send on messages that I'm nervous to send. Thank you for encouraging me to "shoot my shot". Thank you for getting ice cream with me when that "shot" doesn't make the basket.

Thank you for making sure that I'm taking my medicine like I'm supposed to. Thank you for helping me pick out my formal dress. Thank you for being kind.

Thank you for letting me do your hair. Thank you for listening to the funny story of that date I went on. (CORN). Thank you for all of your pep talks.

Thank you for letting me 3rd wheel with you and your boyfriend. Thank you for encouraging me to follow my dreams. Thank you for going with me three hours early to the movie showing last September.

Thank you for listening to me freak out about my to-do list. Thank you for being compassionate. Thank you for being my friend because without you I probably would be as confused, lost, and lonely as I was as a freshman.

Thank you for being a part of so many of my memories that I can't remember a time when we weren't friends. Thank you for being some of the people that I know that I can always count on. Thank you for everything.

With love,

Kinsey

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