Laughter Is The Key That Unlocks The Heart

There may be that special someone that makes you laugh on days when you didn't even think it was possible. Every time you are around this person their own smile just lights up the room you are in and you can't help but accept that it's contagious. No matter what mood you're in or whatever went wrong that day, you know their humor is there to save you. So if you can't make a girl laugh, including myself, then don't even bother.

When I first notice a guy, their smile is what draws me in. It is scientifically proven that smiling can decrease your overall stress. Whether you force a smile on or see someone else's, it can overall brighten up your mood. It also takes a specific guy to understand my humor and when you find the select one or few, you won't even have to force a smile because it will come naturally. I must admit, having a f**cked up sense of humor or dry sense of humor, not everyone gets. It is even more imperative when that guy matches your humor because research shows that personality psychology relates to how you use your sense of amusement in your everyday life.

It is also rare when you find that tears are flowing from your eyes but not because you're sad, but because you're laughing your damn ass off. Rare, but possible. Along with those tears of banter, comes the strong snorting pig laugh and that takes a special someone to witness that. To me, the best feeling is trying to catch your breath because you're laughing so hard as you can taste your own tears of joy. Sometimes you can just look at a person and start frantically laughing, trying to hold yourself together in public as they do the same. A strong connection with tons of inside jokes with someone is from growth and can make whatever situation you're in bearable.

There have been times when my face would actually hurt because I'm forcing myself to laugh at someone else's jokes that I just do not understand. Hence, probably why I am not seeing or dating them anymore. But when I can connect with someone, laughing is effortless. In fact, no one else around me has to even understand why I am laughing so hard as long as my partner in crime looks as stupid as I do. If you are looking to win my heart over, potential boyfriends aren't the only ones that have to put their humor out in the open, best friends must do the same. I truly believe that humor is one of the biggest traits that make any relationship successful, along with trust and honesty.

I can be in a room full of people and feel completely isolated if this one person isn't there. Their humor makes the day manageable and even gives me something to look forward to. So thank-you to the people in my life who's laughter is contagious and thank-you to that special someone that made me realize that it doesn't take much to smile.