For When You Feel Like You Are Stuck In Limbo

For When You Feel Like You Are Stuck In Limbo

Take that leap of faith, and move on to the next stage of your life.

I’m pretty sure we have all experienced it in one way or another at some point in our lives. That feeling, that frustrating feeling, when you feel as though you are stuck and waiting for something to happen. You are not moving backward, but you are not moving forward either. You are standing still. You are in limbo.

Being in limbo, or perhaps at a crossroads in life, is one of the most frustrating feelings we go through as people on this earth. Whether you are going through a time of personal transition or if you are dealing with a relationship issue, being in limbo simply is not a good feeling. In fact, it can lead to a lot of anxiety, distress and uneasiness.

This is why I’m here to tell you that you need to get out of limbo, even though that might mean taking one of the scariest leaps you’ll ever have to take.

That situation, the one where you feel like there is nothing but you can do but wait, is actually in your control. You might feel as though it’s not, but I promise it is. You might have to wait for a physical thing or change to occur, but you can change the mindset you have about what you are going through.

You can remind yourself that you might not have the power to change the situation, but you can change how you look at it. You can actively think in a hopeful way, excited for change to occur, without waiting for it to happen.

That person, the one you love who is putting you in limbo, does not deserve your time or love any longer if they are placing you there. It is simply an unfair place to be, and you deserve someone who is certain of your value in his or her life.

You deserve to be treated better than to have someone put you in an uncertain, uncomfortable place where you can no longer hold on but at the same time can not move on. You are stuck, but you deserve to be free.

Even though you may believe that limbo is, in fact, a comfortable place because you aren’t choosing a certain path over another, I can almost always guarantee that you will feel better once you choose to take a step instead of stand still. You will realize how strong you are for being able to move on from whatever is keeping you in limbo.

While limbo might feel like the only option at times, I can assure you that it is not. You have the control to take that step or to change those debilitating thoughts. While it might be scary, you can’t stand still anymore. It’s preventing you from enjoying the present moment, which can be pretty wonderful if you let it.

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I Tried To Lose Weight All My Life But Couldn't Shed The Pounds Until I Turned To God

Now it's easier than ever and I'm never looking back.


It's amazing how good it feels to get rid of something that has felt like such a tall barrier in your life for so long. For years, and years, honestly, as many years as I can remember, I have felt held back by my weight. It's something that never truly left my mind, whether it was how I looked in my school uniform skort compared to other girls, how I looked in pictures, the thoughts that raced through my head lying in bed that night, or if what I ordered off the menu would make me look fat. It was always something.

Now I have tried, or so I thought I had. I had tried giving up carbs for two weeks, doing workout videos, or eating healthy, occasionally running, or honestly, anything I thought might help a bit. But there I was after a full year of college, heavier than ever.

It was then that I found my secret ingredient, it was then that I found the ultimate weight-loss secret: Prayer.

I found myself amidst a challenge that I didn't know if I was mentally strong enough to handle, faced against temptations of my wildest food dreams. Canes, pizza, chocolate, ice cream, oh my!

I had never thought once about offering up my prayers to God when it came to my weight. I'm not sure why, honestly. It was something that I had struggled with for so long, that it almost felt normal.

Now, when I feel tempted I ask myself a lot if this is the "abundantly more" that God promises us. If it isn't, then I don't pick it. Strength is a process, just like endurance or habits.

I have learned that by offering up the comparisons I feel at the gym, listening to podcasts while running, or Jesus music while practically swimming in my sweat, I am motivated to keep going, not dragged down by the progress I haven't made. I have learned to thank God for the journey He has taken me on so far, and for giving me the capability to overcome these hurdles.

Jesus Didn't die on the cross and tell us to get our butts out there and make disciples of all the nations just for us to sit and be upset with ourselves and compare ourselves to those tiny pictures on our screens. Let's go, we don't have time for that. We have work to do.

No, I'm not saying that if you pray for Jesus to make you lose 15 pounds, the weight will fall off, but I am saying that through Christ, all things are possible, and with Him by my side, the running doesn't feel as difficult.

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Weight Lifting Improved My Self Confidence

We all have our fitness goals that we'd like to achieve to gain that self-confidence that'll make us proud of ourselves. Mine is to gain healthy weight.


It's no secret that I am pretty tiny and maybe even smaller than I am supposed to be at twenty-one years of age. I'm healthy but a couple years back I started to think of ways to become even more healthy and improve my self-confidence. I know you may be thinking, "You're a woman. Women shouldn't lift," but come on guys women can do anything. People think that women shouldn't lift because then they'll end up looking like men but that isn't the case at all.

Weightlifting burns fat, makes your muscles grow, and it makes your bones stronger. Weightlifting also helps me relax more when I'm feeling a little stressed out. One of my favorite workouts I like to do is BODYPUMP in the student recreation and wellness center at Radford University.

BODYPUMP is a fun and it's not only good for just weight lifting. Cardio is also incorporated into the work out as well.

Weight lifting has built up my confidence in so many ways. I feel better and I believe I look healthier too. Putting on weight through muscle has made it so that I move better with more pride in myself.

Some people might think it's a little crazy to WANT to gain weight been told that I should be happy being small but I've also been bullied about my tiny size as well. It's more than just gaining weight though.

I want to gain HEALTHY weight through exercise and a nutritional diet filled with carbohydrates (YES CARBS!), protein, and healthy fats.

Some people feel confident when they lose weight while others feel confident about gaining weight. We all have our fitness goals and none of it is easy but it definitely will be worth it once we do meet our goals. It's important to have smart fitness goals that can be achieved in a reasonable amount of time.

And believe me when I say these things take time and consistency. I believe we should encourage each other to meet our fitness goals and maintain them instead of questioning things like weight gain. I still have a long ways to go but I am becoming happier and happier with my progress each step of the way.

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