You are a great boyfriend, but there are always a few things that seem to go over your head. Your girlfriend gets upset about what she says are "the little things."
These are the things you likely don't pay attention to or even think about, but if you want to keep your girlfriend happy, you need to correct the little things you let go unnoticed.
1. Listen and Respond
Not everything needs a response, especially when she is ranting about homework or work drama. Listen to what she has to say and comfort her in her tantrum. She is not looking for you to have a magical solution to fix her problems, she just wants someone important to hear her out.
2. Tell Her, Don’t Ask
You may get tired of your girlfriend when you ask her to go somewhere and she asks you the same question to double check if you really mean what you say. To avoid this, just tell her you her to go with you somewhere. Women like the satisfaction of feeling needed. In fact, it may turn her on a little that you are taking command.
3. Let Her Know Why You Are MIA
If you have been texting and you know you are stop replying or reply much slower, let her know. Tell her you are going to be away from your phone for a while so she is not constantly looking out for a message that is not going to come.
4. Outside Female Friends Are Great, But There Are Boundaries
This goes for both parties. If you have a friend that is a girl then respect the boundaries that your girlfriend has likely set. She probable has not said them aloud because she wants to be the 'cool' girlfriend. Keep the side hugging to a minimum and talk about her every time you are together to a minimum. She wants to be the 'cool' girlfriend, but just know a piece of her does not trust your friend that is a girl.
5. She Cares What You Think About Her Outfit
Before she even asks, you should throw a compliment her way. If she does ask you, stray away from the thoughtless compliments such as "you look good" or "I Like that". Tell her something specific about the outfit, such as "that color compliments your skin" or "I like it when you wear that shirt". She will appreciate compliments that she can't hear from random people on the street.
Correct these little things and even ask a friend what other little things guys should correct or pay more attention to.
