Putting your heart on the line on national television is not an easy task. Especially when the show and cut and sliced to fit into a two-hour time slot. Although the watchers don't see everything that happens behind those two hours we can only imagine what the contestants are feeling.
It must be heartbreaking to get eliminated when you have put your own life on hold in the hopes of finding your one true love. So to all the contestants that don't receive the final rose this is for you.
I hope you don't lose faith in love. I don't want the pain you feel in that moment to lead you away from the love that you are looking for. The person you are looking for is out there somewhere waiting to meet you. This show may be the start of a new journey for you and your love life.
Don't let the fact that you were on tv go to your head. Remind yourself of what you were before you became famous. Remind yourself of your values, and your moral code. Don't let the fact that your Instagram following increased cause you to get too big-headed.
Life goes on. Just because you got eliminated from the show doesn't mean that life ends. Days are still passing, hours still turn into minutes, and your heart keeps beating. Remember to make the most of each one of those minutes. Learn from this experience. It's not the end for you it is just the beginning you the start of a new adventure.
All of you are amazing, and special in your own way. You all have different traits that make you unique and lovable.
Now go start your new adventure.