Dates can be a fun way to meet new people and to see where things go. However, there are a few things that can affect the outcome of a date - and they're things you may not even have realized are important. These can go for anyone and any any gender, depending on your date. Also, some or most of these may be habits already! Yay!
1. Being on time
Being on time is one of the most important things when meeting a friend, or going on a date. Our time is limited and of much value. Therefore, being on time is not only responsible, but it shows you care enough for the person to be there when you say you will be. It shows you are dependable, and respect the person. Of course things come up, so a simple phone call or text is always nice before your expected arrival time.
2. Opening doors
It's a little thing, I know, but it's just courteous, simple gesture. All things add up, you know? Plus, even just opening the door for a friend or stranger is a nice, easy way to put someone before you, and show you care.
3. Dress
Your style says a lot about you. If you put in a little bit of effort to look nice, it actually goes a long way. Showing up in sweatpants gives off the impression that you didn't care enough about the person to dress up and look nice. Now, this doesn't mean you have to dress like you're going to a prom, but put in a little bit of effort and trust me, it makes a difference.
4. Hygiene
On a similar note, make sure to brush your teeth and wear some deodorant. That goes for anyone -- it's just... really necessary, both for your health and their convenience. And that doesn't mean just chew some gum. That means brush your teeth, floss, use mouthwash, and then chew some gum. Also, no one likes B.O. But I suggest not going overboard. For example, dousing yourself in a bottle of perfume or cologne is just as bad as not doing anything.
5. Asking questions
I know it may sound like basic conversation logic, but it is really nice when you reciprocate in a conversation. It's often easy for us to talk about ourselves, but be aware when you're going on for too long. Asking questions about the person you're with shows you are interested in learning more about them, and that's important!
6. Eye-Contact
Look at the person when you speak! It not only shows interest, but it's also respectful. And it goes along way. Just... maybe don't go this far:
7.Responding
Honestly, ghosting a person can be one of the most frustrating things. That doesn't mean you should text them all the time and demand a response, but it does mean responding in a timely manner - like 24 hours maybe? Of course, that is if you're still interested in the person Otherwise, it's always nice just to let them know how you feel and what's going on.
8. Meet them half way
If they have come to you the last couple of times, it's nice to offer to meet them where they are, or at least half way. If that's not feasible, at least try to show appreciation to one another for the small things, such as driving there and back.
Finally...
All people enjoy feeling wanted, and like to feel as though they matter. By demonstrating these small tips, you're able to show respect for someone and make them feel like a priority in your life - whether it's the first date or twenty seventh.Of course, no one is perfect and no one should aim to be! However, these tips are good to keep in mind. You deserve the best, and should do your best for others!
