We all want to hear those special three little words that can send your stomach into flips. There's nothing quite like hearing those words, or is there? I believe there are tons of ways to tell a person you love them other than coming out and actually saying "I love you." It's great to hear, don't get me wrong, but these are some of my favorite phrases that I also adore hearing on a day-to-day basis.
1. I respect you
At the end of the day we are all human beings who have feelings and emotions just like everyone else. It's nice to know that on the days you aren't feeling yourself, your boundaries will still be known to your significant other.
2. We're in this together
Sometimes life is tough and it starts to take its toll on you. It's comforting knowing that there's someone who cares about you so much that they are willing to make your problems their problems.
3. You're safe with me
Being able to completely let go and be vulnerable with someone without having to worry about anything else is key. Sometimes simply hearing this is all the reassurance you need.
4. I trust you
With being safe comes trust as well. Trusting someone with your heart and your body as a human being is huge. Opening up and letting someone see a side that no one else has seen with the risk of being hurt is one of the most powerful phrases linked to an "I love you" in my book.
5. Have you eaten today?
Your significant other knows you like the back of their hand and they know when you have a headache from stress or because you decided not to eat today. They care about your well-being, even when they aren't around.
6. I appreciate you
What a wonderful phrase. Someone is letting you know that your actions don't go unnoticed and not only that, but also that they are grateful that you do the things you do for them.
7. What's really on your mind?
To have someone who wants to explore the deepest and darkest parts of your mind is a gift we should never take for granted. They want you to tell them, and they will listen with every ounce of their being because they care.
8. I forgive you
You messed up. Big time. But guess what? A person who truly loves you knows that we are all human, and no matter how perfect you are, you make mistakes too. They are choosing to continue on with you, even if you did hurt them.
9. It's going to be okay
It's been a long day and all you want to do is break down and cry. Sometimes doing that in the arms of your loved one while they tell you it'll be okay is the best comfort one can have.
10. I support you no matter what
This one is one of my favorites. You could be so wrong in your decision-making and your significant other probably knows that, but they love you so much that they choose to put that aside and support you in all that you do anyway.
Get yourself someone who says these little "I love you" phrases every day. Everyone deserves to hear these things and everyone deserves someone who is willing to provide all of these things as well.
