I would be willing to bet that every one of us has at some point been called pathetic or worthless or a waste of time, but it's how we used those words to grow as a person that actually makes the difference.

I've been told several times in my lifetime that I have no idea what it's like to go through struggles and to suffer because my life is incredibly blessed and relatively easy. If you haven't read my testimony, I'll link it here. The point is that even if a person's life looks like it's easy, that doesn't mean that it is actually is. Appearances are deceiving 100% of the time.

With that being said, you're pathetic.

You're pathetic for letting your circumstances define you.

You're pathetic for letting your own self confidence fall because of something someone said.

You're pathetic for not standing up for yourself.

You're pathetic for not following your dreams.

You're pathetic for believing other's opinions of you.

You're pathetic for letting others definite you.

You're pathetic for letting yourself be walked on.

You're pathetic for walking on other people.

You're pathetic for letting yourself slip away.

You're pathetic for becoming the person you're not.

You're pathetic for your constant whining when your situation is your own fault.

You're pathetic for pushing everyone away who tries to help you.

You're pathetic for not listening to the best advice you will ever receive.

You're pathetic for being shut inside your own head 24/7.

You're pathetic for thinking you're pathetic.

-A.