You Got Benched- A Take On Failed Exams
Start writing a post
Sports

You Got Benched- A Take On Failed Exams

Don't let one test wreck your confidence.

22
You Got Benched- A Take On Failed Exams

Kirk Cousins, the starting quarterback for the Redskins, is paid a ridiculous amount – a one-year $19.95 million contract. However, this absurd number has not produced high results on the field. With a 0-2 start to the season, fans are calling for this QB to be benched.

Perhaps this is you, a star student from a past season. Given your history of success, people have invested in you, but this season is different – you're choking in the presence of what you feel is an enormous audience. You're used to getting good grades, it's all you know. However, you were just given a grade that crushed you. You ask yourself "How could this happen?" You tried your best, but the results did not yield what you wanted. Simply put, you were benched.

Now every athlete knows this feeling. In the moment, you feel completely inadequate. You convince yourself you're not good enough because that night a coach doesn't believe you have what it takes to be out there. There, in front of everyone, you were ripped out of the game and placed on the bench. Your teammates give you a sympathetic look, but that almost makes it worse because you know that at the moment, they're outperforming you. But that's when you need to realize that tonight just wasn't your night – there will be other games. You can't delve into comparing yourself to your teammates, that only yields further self-degradation.

Another feeling of receiving that grade or being "benched," is that you feel like all your hard work went to waste. You studied or practiced for hours, and the results look as if you did anything but that. You can't explain it; you think that because you put in the time, you should have gotten the result that you wanted. Yet, consider this: A doctor works vigorously to save a patient. They look over results, they care for them around the clock, they attempt a life-saving surgery. But the patient died, and the doctor failed. All that hard work amounted to nothing, but does that mean that they didn't work hard? No, not at all, they worked extremely hard, the results just weren't what they could attain.

You had a bad game, there will be more. Don't let your mind slip into the "I'm not adequate to continue with this." There will always be the opportunity to have the game of your life.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

67467
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

43383
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less
Adulting

Unlocking Lake People's Secrets: 15 Must-Knows!

There's no other place you'd rather be in the summer.

968348
Group of joyful friends sitting in a boat
Haley Harvey

The people that spend their summers at the lake are a unique group of people.

Whether you grew up going to the lake, have only recently started going, or have only been once or twice, you know it takes a certain kind of person to be a lake person. To the long-time lake people, the lake holds a special place in your heart, no matter how dirty the water may look.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments