In our society, we value a drive for hard work which leads to over working. Making time for the personal situations, such as hanging out with your friends, visiting family and contacting old acquaintances over the phone is usually pushed to weekends and holidays. However, I believe that trying to maintain contact at a better pace can lead to more life fulfillment.
As a creative person, I often focus most of my time on my assignments, and rarely take a break. However, I have noticed that when I do take the time to go to a concert, talk to old friends or spend time with family one-on-one, I see the bigger picture of purpose in life. Art imitates life and life imitates art. Taking big breaks away from socializing can keep you away from the inspiration for what drives it all.
This can seem obvious when it is placed in front of you, but overworking can be blinding and can make you forget the smallest moments make up your greatest motivation. I am not saying that you should not work hard for your goals. Having a balance of both work and connection can make for a better life. If you do not make time for the special people in your life, then what is the purpose of the hard work?
Having a good break from your work can fuel your work ethic as well as your motivation. During times of stress, talking to someone about your problems can fuel the energy to complete it. The stories that we share with others are the driving force behind everyone's craft. Avoiding work or connection can be toxic, and will lead to some work blocks and relationship problems. Simply, doing work all the time can possibly hinder the work ethic to perform it.
Trying to keep that balance is easier to say than do, but I find that there are many times that people excuse neglecting relationships with lots of work. I believe that the goals and achievements that we are all pursuing can be lost when we seek to avoid connection outside of the realm of our working lives. The past year taught me that I should not forget that the interpersonal connections that I have should be nurtured.
