There are a lot of different types of guys in the world and one very special kind are the ones that are classified as being "the life of the party." They're the ones that grab your hand and drag you to the bar to hang out with friends, tell you to hop in the car and ask if they should turn right or left at the light, and are always making you laugh.
It's kind of nice sitting at home, catching up on your favorite Netflix series, and drinking a cup of chamomile tea -- but it's way more adventurous and exciting having someone who constantly is on the go. The reason these people exist in the world is to help you break out of your shell and experience life to the fullest.
If you think you could handle him, here are some tips for dating that kind of person:
1. Be a good listener: when they're teaching you something, make an effort to learn. It's usually something really cool.
2. Be sassy in return: A lot of times "the life of the party" type have some attitude. They poke fun and it's OK to poke fun back! That's what makes it entertaining.
3. Don't get caught up in being jealous: They are VERY social humans and can have conversations with pretty much everyone.
4. Let go: Enjoy yourself and stop worrying about feeling weird about trying something new. If you go into dates with an open mind you'll have a great time and meet some super interesting people.
Personally, I love these people because they are the thrill seeking side of myself. When you have someone who takes every opportunity to try something new and encourages you to do the same, it makes for some great stories.
Whether they're making friends at a party or deciding it's a brilliant idea to go on a weekend adventure someplace cool, there is a serious lack of boredom when you find someone like this. They're usually silly and fun; your relationship doesn't become monochromatic or dull by any means. These are the people that will encourage you to get out of your shell and live life a little recklessly for a while.
They give you the opportunity to learn something new, whether that be about yourself or some kind of activity. It's invigorating when you can experience something new that is both eye-opening and teaches you something that you may not have known before. It can really be anything from trying that Thai restaurant down the street, to rock climbing and going out to a shooting range, or even drinking a beer that you've never tried before. The adventurous types are the ones that help you live on the edge and experience what you've held back from doing.
