Like anything else, dating a stubborn girl has its ups and downs. She'll be very loyal, supportive and dedicated towards you. You'll quickly realize that you're something special to her when she's able to occasionally put her hard-headedness aside for the sake of your sanity. On the other hand, you'll also have to learn how to handle the side of her that can be difficult at times. Consider this your guide to dating a stubborn girl.
1. She can't decipher the difference between constructive criticism and just criticism.
The last thing a stubborn girl wants to hear is what she needs to improve on. Of course, it needs to be done every now and then, but don't be surprised if she doesn't take it well.
2. Apologizing is downright hard. And so is being wrong.
Consider yourself a lucky man if the words "I'm wrong and you're right" ever come out of her mouth. She'll swallow her pride eventually and apologize, but it may take a while. Be patient.
3. She can't control her competitiveness.
And she's the world's sorest loser, so don't expect a high five if you win in a game against her. She'll let the competition get the best of her. But do not let her win because...
4. She hates pity.
Save the sympathy! It's offensive to her. She never wants to hear "I feel bad for you."
5. Compliments are great, but also difficult for her to take seriously.
Most likely, she'll think you're complimenting her just to be nice, not because you actually mean it. This doesn't mean you should stop though, because she does appreciate it. She's just unsure how to react.
6. Sometimes, she holds grudges.
She isn't proud of this, but it can be nearly impossible to just forgive and move on. During an argument, she'll probably bring up a mistake you made months ago.
7. She's defensive.
She will stick up for herself, her friends, her family and you. She won't take crap from anyone.
8. Her bad mood can last all day.
Not to discourage you, but it's going to take a lot to make her smile once she's upset. She gets stuck in funks that seem to never end. Give her time.
9. She'll get frustrated with herself more than with you.
She has high standards for herself and she'll get upset when she feels like she's not living up to them. Reassure her that she doesn't have to be perfect to be the incredible woman she is.
10. Asking for help is her absolute last resort.
To her, doing everything independently is the only option. She doesn't want help, and she won't ask for help. (Well, unless it involves lifting heavy objects...but that's about it.)
With a lot of patience, reassurance, and tolerance, dating a stubborn girl can be the best type of challenge. Be sure to give her the time and space she needs, and show that you care deeply for her. In return, she'll love you like no other.
