My parents' families are exact opposites. On my dad's side I have no cousins and we have a small family here in America. On my mom's side, I have my big, Italian/Irish family. It is two extremes and I love all of my family equally, but being part of a big Italian family is one of a kind. We aren't even 100 percent Italian, but we sure act and live like it. Between the food, the conversations and the celebrations, I love it all. But not everyone understands what it is actually like to be in an Italian family.
1. Your cousins are some of your best friends.
Although we definitely do not see and talk to each other everyday, my cousins are some of my best friends. They have been there from the start and I know if I called any of them with a problem, then they would pick up and help me. I love each of you dearly, and family parties would definitely not be the same without hiding in the basement with you guys.
2. Family parties are the best and worst thing to happen.
Ah, family parties. Every holiday, graduation and sometimes birthdays, we all gather at the designated family member's house. Pros of family party: get to see your cousins/family, a lot of good food. Cons of family party: everyone asking what you're doing with your life and if you have a boyfriend. Of course at every family party, there is the kids table, which is always the best table and the goodbyes take at least 30 minutes.
3. There is always enough food to feed a small country.
Because there is so many of us, everyone tends to overcook at family events. Because one entree isn't enough and you never know how much everyone is going to eat. Also, how could you not send everyone home with food?
4. People think we are yelling, but we're using our normal voices.
We're just loud and not sorry about it.
5. Eating dinner at 7 p.m. is "early."
Cooking is one of the biggest things about being in an Italian family. Whenever everyone is cooking, you can bet money that they are blasting music in the kitchen with a glass of wine in hand. We are always told that dinner will be served at 6 p.m. or 7 p.m., but we now know that really means around 9 p.m. to 10 pm.
6. Family will always be No.1.
Here's a small glimpse into my family Christmas party. We all love each other and look out for each other. Through my big, Italian family, we have learned that no one gets left behind. We are each other's family and we always will be. No matter who gets into fights or any of the drama that goes on, family comes first, no questions asked. I am so grateful to have my big, supportive and loving family behind me at all times. I wouldn't have wanted to grow up with anyone else in the world.
