Being a female in the world of nerds and geeks of all kinds, is kind of terrifying. It's a world dominated by men and the assumption that only men can like it. To me, this just seems really silly. Do we still live in a world where guys have to like superheroes and girls have to like princesses? I don’t need certain genitalia to understand and love comic books. There isn't a “Boys Only” sticker on the cover of every comic book I pick up.
1. When I say I like comic books, you don’t have to quiz me (but if you do, be prepared to lose)
I cannot express how many times I’ve said that, and a male has given me some kind of skill testing question. It’s been so much, that I’m paranoid and think every conversation is a test. But if you do challenge my knowledge and opinions, you better brace yourself for a hurricane of facts and thought out, backed up opinions.
2. I don’t like comics for anyone but myself.
I did not get into comic books to impress guys or anyone. I accidentally stumbled upon them one day and my world changed. Maybe I do get bonus points when it comes to flirting with geeky guys but believe me, I would be into them regardless if it was a “guy thing” or not.
3. If we date, you better be prepared for my comic book boyfriend (or husband) who may or may not take precedence over you
This may or may not be a joke.
(and his name is Richard Grayson. *sigh*)
4. We all have a story of getting objectified or bullied in a comic book store.
Men staring, laughing, making comments asking why you’re there. It’s happened to literally all of us. The first time I was even in a comic book store a guy tried to get me away from the superhero comics and tell me I would be better suited for some princess one.
5. I don’t care.
I don't care that you think my opinions of comic books are invalid just because I’m a girl. I don’t care if comic books and superheroes are marketed towards males. I don’t care that you think you know more about the history of Batman’s clan than I do (because you probably don’t). I don’t care what you think of female comic book fans in general.
I have every right to be in that comic book or gaming store or comic convention. I have the same rights you do. I’m just as valid.
Female comic fans rule.
