When I became a teenager I remember making birthday wishes and putting I want a boyfriend on my Christmas list. It was something that was in the forefront of my mind because all of my friends were dating. It took me a while to accept and be happy being single.
As a 24-year-old woman, it took me into my 20s to learn that it is okay to be single. I don't need a relationship to make me feel special or important. As a woman who is still looking for her first date, I am no longer asking Santa to bring me a boyfriend. He should be asking Santa for someone like me. I am the gift.
If he doesn't want or appreciate me for who I am then he is not the one for me anyways. I have a lot to offer a relationship and I bring a lot to the table. I am a unique and fun person. He has to except that I have a nerdy and quirky side. I am a gift that you cannot buy in a store.
I have a positive and upbeat personality. I see the best in most situations and in people. I am pretty easygoing and easy to get along with. I am a naturally supportive person. I am a great gift for a guy to ask Santa to bring. I am very comfortable and my own skin, and I will encourage him to embrace who he is. He should ask Santa to bring him the most amazing woman in the world, and he will receive me.
As a woman, who still believes that chivalry is not dead, it is no longer our job to ask Santa to bring us a boyfriend. Women should not have to keep asking for boyfriends. There should be a guy out there that wants Santa to bring him a girlfriend. The boys need to start asking Santa to bring them wonderful and amazing women.