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To The Guy Who Told Me I Wasn't 'Fun' When I Said No To Sex

Go "fun" yourself.

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To The Guy Who Told Me I Wasn't 'Fun' When I Said No To Sex
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You know what I like to do for fun? For fun, I like to hang out with my friends, I like to blast EDM into my ears, and drink purple hazes. You know what else is fun? Going to concerts, hanging out with someone you love or seeing a movie.

Wow, so many fun things that aren't sex, most especially that aren't sex or what not...WITH YOU.

I would like to consider most people have hobbies. Let's make a wild guess here and say that a lot of people do other stuff that is fun that isn't having sex, or having sex WITH YOU.

I know this may be way too crazy for you to understand, but people don't always consider hooking up fun. Now, I'm not saying that it isn't fun for people to do that and people don't consider that fun. Sure, I mean why wouldn't someone want to hook up with someone who they just met that was EXTREMELY attractive!

Or a favorite crush who finally told you they liked you back wanted to hookup that night. That's all fun.

Or even people just wanted to have sex and hookup because it feels good. That's all in good fun but some people don't consider it fun always. Maybe they enjoy doing other things for fun, especially when someone like you is asking them to have "fun."

I can't be the only one who enjoys the things I do for fun. I know that I'm not. Wow, I guess that makes a lot of people not fun. Sheesh, that a lame world we live in then huh?

Or maybe...

Maybe you just suck. Just because I don't consider hooking up with the likes of you fun, doesn't make me not a fun person. I'm pretty sure I know how to have fun. I'm pretty sure lots of us know how to have fun. I am also sure that any other girl who denied a little fun with you, is also a very fun person.

Sir, maybe you aren't the fun one. So consider this, maybe you aren't the fun one, so next time you tell someone they aren't fun because they didn't want to hook up or have sex with you, how about you go "fun" yourself and leave us alone.

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