When it comes to cheating, the "other" girl or guy tends to get most of the sh*t for it. Instead of people blaming their significant other for what happened, they blame the person that their significant other cheated on them with.

Don't get me wrong, a lot of the time, the person they cheat on you with is fully aware of who you are and that you two are in a relationship...and they just don't care. In fact, they think that by getting your significant other to cheat on you with them that they are winning.

My case is a little different. So to his girlfriend, I'm sorry. This one's for you.

The truth is, when I met your boyfriend last night at the bar, I really thought he was a cute, sweet, funny, genuine guy. I was wrong. And I bet you think the same thing. I would really hate for you to have to find it out this way.

Your boyfriend came on to me first, it wasn't me on him. He was dancing with me. He had his arms around me. He was playing with my hair. He put his hat on my head and told me that I looked better than any other girl in his hat. He's the one that kissed me. He asked me for my number.

And no, he wasn't drunk, just slightly tipsy.

He never mentioned you, and it wasn't until this morning when I woke up to find myself blocked from his Snapchat and social media pages that I realized he wasn't single. And let me tell you one thing, had I known you were in the picture, I would never have let him do any of that.

I have no respect and no tolerance for cheaters, and I hate that this time I was the "other girl" in the picture. It's just wrong.

His friends were in on it. You can't trust them. He was with three other guys, and not a single one of them tried to talk him out of it or even mention to me that he had a girlfriend. I would love for you to know that I went off on one of his friends this morning because I actually had his number, only for him to tell me that it "wasn't his place" to "cockblock." His friends know everything and they're all hiding it from you. You can't trust any of them. And just for the record, your boyfriend does this to a new girl every time he goes out. I know this for a fact.

So, girl, I'm sorry. It wouldn't have happened (with me at least) had I known about you. And if I had found out about you while I was still around him last night, I would have slapped the crap out of him.

I'm personally hurt by the situation, but I know I'm not nearly as hurt as you would be if you found out about it.

If you ever catch him cheating, don't blame the girl. It's all him. Getting rid of him would be doing yourself a big favor. And trust me, I learned the hard way that "once a cheater, always a cheater." He will never change. I'm sorry. Please do forgive me, and if you ever want to seek revenge on him, count me in.