Hey, Stop Hating On Children

Hey, Stop Hating On Children

From Fortnite dances to fidget spinners, why is it so easy to be hostile towards the things literal children enjoy?


I was born at that really odd time at the edge of two generations. Am I a Millennial? Am I in Gen Z? Hard to tell, especially because each website, book and study says something different. In the end, I find myself relating to both generations in different ways, maybe leaning a bit towards the Millennials. I remember when my family bought our first DVD player, I remember those old Disney Channel shows, too, and I was 12 when my mom finally got rid of her flip phone. But I also spend way too much time watching Tiktoks and got addicted to my smartphone at the ripe old age of fourteen, so I guess I have some things in common with Gen Z too.

This weird hybrid state I find myself in might be fueling this article. As someone who can relate to both of this generations, I remember hearing people a few years older than me complain about how adults just didn't understand them, how Gen X was full of people who just hated on Millennials so much and had no empathy. Didn't they remember being kids? I've felt the same way at points in my life. And that's why it's so confusing to me to see those same Millennials turn and ridicule Gen Z for their trends. The very people who claimed they would never act like this have turned around and started to do exactly what they said they wouldn't. And honestly? Why be surprised?

It's hard to realize you're not cool anymore. And, older Millennials, I hate to break to you, but you're not cool anymore. Ten-year-olds look at you and think you're old and boring. I mean, you don't even know what tea is, or how to get lit. You don't understand the latest memes anymore. What's up with that weird picture of Pikachu everyone's sharing? I mean, really, Gen Z just has really dumb humor, right? They don't say bae anymore, and they think your clothes look stupid, and all those memes you were making in 2010 are so incredibly irrelevant to them. They're the dumb ones, right?

I think this is a struggle every generation has faced. Growing up and realizing that suddenly you aren't the ones dictating what's relevant and cool and what "the kids these days" are into can be a bit of a shocking thing. However, that isn't an excuse. There is absolutely no reason to be hateful towards the innocent things the next generation enjoys.

Millennials acting like the things children and teenagers like now are all stupid is the same as when we were made fun of for silly bands, selfies, Harry Potter, old Disney shows, and other harmless things we enjoyed as children. We shouldn't put down the next generation because they have their own sense of humor. If we do, we're setting ourselves up to be just like the one before us, despite all our promises that we would never be like that, that we'd understand our children.

The truth is, every generation in recent history has had weird fads. Every generation has had its dumb things that don't make sense to the previous ones. And yet look how it all turned out. The vast majority of people grow up to be good, productive members of society. I think we should be less critical of the next generation, and remember that in the end, we're all living on this planet together. We've got to take care of each other because we'll never get anywhere by tearing each other down.

So let the kids do their Fortnite dances. Let the teens say "yeet" every time they do anything. Let the children do what children do best: things that seem dumb to older people, but are infinitely funny to them. It's not hurting you, is it?

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An Open Letter to the Person Who Still Uses the "R Word"

Your negative associations are slowly poisoning the true meaning of an incredibly beautiful, exclusive word.

What do you mean you didn't “mean it like that?" You said it.

People don't say things just for the hell of it. It has one definition. Merriam-Webster defines it as, "To be less advanced in mental, physical or social development than is usual for one's age."

So, when you were “retarded drunk" this past weekend, as you claim, were you diagnosed with a physical or mental disability?

When you called your friend “retarded," did you realize that you were actually falsely labeling them as handicapped?

Don't correct yourself with words like “stupid," “dumb," or “ignorant." when I call you out. Sharpen your vocabulary a little more and broaden your horizons, because I promise you that if people with disabilities could banish that word forever, they would.

Especially when people associate it with drunks, bad decisions, idiotic statements, their enemies and other meaningless issues. Oh trust me, they are way more than that.

I'm not quite sure if you have had your eyes opened as to what a disabled person is capable of, but let me go ahead and lay it out there for you. My best friend has Down Syndrome, and when I tell people that their initial reaction is, “Oh that is so nice of you! You are so selfless to hang out with her."

Well, thanks for the compliment, but she is a person. A living, breathing, normal girl who has feelings, friends, thousands of abilities, knowledge, and compassion out the wazoo.

She listens better than anyone I know, she gets more excited to see me than anyone I know, and she works harder at her hobbies, school, work, and sports than anyone I know. She attends a private school, is a member of the swim team, has won multiple events in the Special Olympics, is in the school choir, and could quite possibly be the most popular girl at her school!

So yes, I would love to take your compliment, but please realize that most people who are labeled as “disabled" are actually more “able" than normal people. I hang out with her because she is one of the people who has so effortlessly taught me simplicity, gratitude, strength, faith, passion, love, genuine happiness and so much more.

Speaking for the people who cannot defend themselves: choose a new word.

The trend has gone out of style, just like smoking cigarettes or not wearing your seat belt. It is poisonous, it is ignorant, and it is low class.

As I explained above, most people with disabilities are actually more capable than a normal human because of their advantageous ways of making peoples' days and unknowingly changing lives. Hang out with a handicapped person, even if it is just for a day. I can one hundred percent guarantee you will bite your tongue next time you go to use the term out of context.

Hopefully you at least think of my friend, who in my book is a hero, a champion and an overcomer. Don't use the “R Word". You are way too good for that. Stand up and correct someone today.

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An Open Letter To PETA CEO Ingrid Newkirk

For an organization whose sole purpose is to ensure the ethical treatment of animals, I have many questions.


Dear Ms. Newkirk,

I, like you, am a firm believer in the right to compassion for all living beings around the world. Ever since converting to veganism from the omnivorous lifestyle I was raised to lead nearly six years ago, I have heavily relied on PETA.com and its affiliates for information, facts and statistics, recipe ideas, cruelty-free lifestyle selections, and activism opportunities on almost a daily basis so that I may further grow my knowledge and support for this permanent lifestyle change. When I search for new beauty or household products, clothing, shoes, and more, it is always comforting to see the "PETA-Approved Vegan" logo on the box, and I am confident in the purchases that I am making.

It was only recently that a new stream of data was brought to my attention that has altered my viewpoint of your organization and what it truly stands for, and I request that you provide the public your reasoning or justification for such acts, and any reparations that need to be made. Another lifelong vegan friend of mine recently pointed out to me a website called petakillsanimals.com where there is sizable physical legal evidence of immense animal cruelty, suffering, and murder at the hands of PETA over the last fifteen of years. Seeing as you have been the CEO of the organization for over 25 years, I figured it would be best to address you directly, seeking a response to this evidence of cruelty from the globally renowned organization that does all that it can to fight cruelty in every form.

According to the Virginia Department of Agriculture and Consumer Services, from 1998 to 2017, 85.2% of all dogs and cats transferred to your facility for shelter were euthanized within 24 hours of being brought to your facility. Despite your reasoning that you painlessly end the suffering of animals who would have otherwise been left to suffer anyway, the arguments and justifications that you are making mirror the arguments of the meat, dairy, poultry, and fish industries (whom you dedicate your life to combating) all too identically. Just as PETA fights to end society's blasé attitude toward animal cruelty and murder, your attempt at claiming that the way you euthanize the animals in your facility is "better", renders one of PETA's greatest catchphrases, essentially, worthless: "There is no such thing as humane murder".

Similarly, after wrongfully luring a family pet off its porch in 2014, PETA took the pet from its owner's property and euthanized it, bringing the dog's owners to file a lawsuit with your organization that was just settled in 2017, where PETA was forced to pay the family nearly $50,000 dollars in damages. Finally, terror is not ever a justifiable option to invoke change, so why are you personally and professionally so aligned with the Animal Liberation Front, a terrorist organization responsible for arson, extensive property damage, and assault? Why have you donated nearly $80,000 to groups that promote harming life in order to save a life?

Ridding the world of violence with more violence has never, does not, and will never work, so if I can request only one thing from you in this letter, even if you refuse to answer my other questions, it is this: please take the funds that are allocated towards extensive euthanasia drugs and services used by and in your facility, and put them toward building either another building to house more animals if physical space is a concern, for providing food and more extensive adoption services for these animals, or donate them to a true no-kill animal-rights organization like Best Friends Animal Society, Underdog Rescue, or any others provided on this list.

In this letter, my intention was neither to attack nor provoke you in an inflammatory manner, but rather to merely seek truth from an organization that I once so dearly respected and wish to one day respect again in the same manner. I thank you for your time, and for all of the lives that you have saved in between.


An Animal Lover & Ally

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