Sometimes, Therapy Isn’t For Everyone

Sometimes, Therapy Isn’t For Everyone

Therapy and medications aren't the end all be all of mental health.


*Disclaimer: Before jumping in, I'd like to make it clear that some people genuinely do need therapy, and there are plenty of people who use it to the fullest extent. If you know somebody who is a danger to themselves or others, please do not hesitate to seek out help for them.

I think we all know that when your mental health isn't at its best, you can't perform to your fullest extent. The things going on in your head weigh down on you more than you may realize.

Over time, the baggage in your mind begins to show through physically. Admittedly, therapy is a great way to sort through those things with someone who isn't going to pass judgment. You can also gain insight on what you're struggling with, but you have to want to help yourself outside of your therapy sessions as well.

While there are plenty of people who benefit greatly from therapy, there are also plenty of people in therapy who still can't seem to figure out what's going on, who still can't seem to feel better. That's because therapy doesn't magically fix your problems without you. You have to work for your mental health.

Many people try to paint a pretty picture on therapy. They try to make it sound like all you need to do is go to a session once a week and everything will be solved. It's nice to think it could be that simple, but you still need to put in the effort between sessions.

Your therapist can give you advice on how to handle your situation, but you're the one who has to go back into the real world and work on putting things back together. Maybe that makes it seem worthless for you, and believe it or not, that's perfectly okay.

Therapy and medications aren't the end all be all of mental health. A lot of your mental health is reliant on self-care. You have to make sure you're surrounded by the right group of people who will give you love and support.

You also can't be afraid to give yourself a break, but hold yourself accountable at the same time. Taking these steps may not solve everything, but they will put you in the right environment to deal with some deeper roots you may have; the right environment to finally let yourself feel peace and happiness.

Contrary to popular belief, your mental health is in your hands; don't be afraid to take back control.

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10 Bible Verses for Self Esteem

Sometimes you need to search for inner strength and find your own self worth.

We all get those days that we just don't feel good enough for anything. Everything is going wrong. For me, I go to the bible to read the words of God. His personal dialog for us is filled with encouragement, hope, and lessons we can learn from. Here are my top ten verses that are uplifting and impacting when at the lowest of lows:

1. Philippians 4:13:

I can do all things in Him who strengthens me.

2. Psalm 46:5

God is within her, she will not fall.

3. Proverbs 31:25

She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.

4. Psalm 28:76

The Lord is my strength and my shield.

5. 1 Corinthians 25:10

By the grace of God, I am what I am.

6. Romans 5:8

I loved you at your darkest.

7. Psalm 62:5-6

Only God gives inward peace, and I depend on Him. God alone is the mighty rock that keeps me safe, and he is the fortress where I feel secure.

8. 2 Timothy 1:7

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline.

9. 1 Peter 2:9

But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.

10. 2 Chronicles 20:15

The battle is not ours, but God's.

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A Friendly Reminder About The Science Of Happiness As Your Final Grades Come In

You may be about your grades, but try to keep things in perspective.


So, it's that time of year again for college students when the semester has just ended and final grades are rolling in. Whether you've gotten your grades or are waiting on a few, here's something that we should all keep in mind.

Often times, there's a lot of stress placed upon grades being the route to happiness. We might think that a certain GPA and certain grades are the be-all, end-all of our futures. Frankly, it really does seem like that given our surroundings. To work out our feelings with this, we often hear that we just need a little change, maybe get out and shift our perspective a little. While advice like this holds merit, sometimes it takes something a little more concrete and a little less philosophical to really believe.

Here is that little reminder:

There was actually a study conducted for over 70 years on the nuances of happiness, and what they found might be of use to you and me. From 1938 to 2013, Harvard conducted a 75 year-long study on happiness led by renowned psychiatrist Dr. Robert Waldinger, and there are three conclusions that can be drawn from the entire experiment:

1. Happiness is achieved through close relationships.

2. Happiness is achieved through quality relationships.

3. Happiness is achieved through supportive, stable relationships.

Wow. Hm. I don't really see anything about grades in there, do you? Thank God there isn't, honestly. Based on the study, happiness is based largely upon the relationships that we foster with the people in our lives, and, while we're at it, with ourselves. It makes sense if you think about it: most of what we'll look back fondly upon is the time we spent doing things that make us happy (aka valuing the relationship with ourselves) and spending time with the people we love. When we have a support system there to help us through, then things become a little less of a chore to handle our self-believe goes up a notch.

So, this is an open invitation to kick back, relax, let your hair fly in the wind, and give yourself a break.

You did what you could with what you had, and you already know that there's always room for improvement. Try to not be down on yourself, really.

If you made someone happier, if you took care of others or yourself, if you made yourself healthier, then you had a worthwhile year, and there are no two ways about it.

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