Slow Down, Let Things Fall Into Place

Slow Down, Let Things Fall Into Place

You stress too much, push it aside.


Summer went by way faster than expected. It's the perfect time to contemplate life decisions and enjoy yourself at the same time. However, there are some consequences while avoiding your problems. You think everything is okay when you come home for the summer and nothing will change, but it does. It has been a long summer and I have learned a few lessons from what has been going on. A major lesson I've learned is to simply let things go and let things fall into place.

All my life I have jumped into situations and gotten myself in trouble for sticking my nose in something I shouldn't be getting myself in. A common phenomenon which happens frequently is that I jump to conclusions and never let things happen. While it is important to "shoot your shot", I have always found myself in better scenarios when I let things happen. Maybe it's my mindset or the way I view things, but I don't regret anything about it.

A lot of my stress derives from not having everything completely organized and things not going the way it should. For example, you are running late for work because you are having car problems and your work is far away from your house. Instead of manifesting the idea of being late to work, develop the idea that you will get to work and the events will transpire as such. This mindset is extremely difficult to develop because life tends to get in the way frequently and we can't help but let the stress overrule the situation. I feel that a scenario works out best when you understand the life events that are going on but refuse to let that ruin the moment or day. One can see this as a manifestation of the mind to fixate on your mindset.

This can work in terms of people, too. If someone is stressing over a person not calling them back, just let the situation go and let the person come around. Since we are dealing with people in everyday life, it's easy to lose our heads and get ahead of ourselves. Once you let the situation go, the person tends to come back around. Sometimes it's better to take a step back and realize that it's okay to let things fall into place and that things will work out, no matter the situation.

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I Choose To Live, Not Just Exist

"Don't just exist, live." - Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart


Ariana Grande has had one of the worst years that I can think of, yet she still kept moving. From her Manchester concert opened at gunpoint, her breakup with Mac Miller after a year and a half of dating, receiving backlash for being with Pete Davidson, to losing Mac Miller after he overdosed and then being blamed for his death, to breaking up with Pete Davidson, she was put through the wringer like no other. I look at her, and other people who've had it far worse than I have, and I thank God that I am here and pray that they have a better new year.

I have a habit of complaining about things, even the slightest inconvenience in my life. When I do this, I forget that people have it harder than me, yet they never ask for help or complain - they're just happy to be here. It's easy for me to be humbled because things that I take advantage of, someone, somewhere in this world is wishing to have what I have. Someone wishes that they could have my life right now, but they're sitting around wondering if they'll see their family again; if they can pay the bills for the month; if they can afford to stay in school; if they can just live.

People, every day, live their lives just trying to get by; they think of themselves as a space that when they leave this Earth and go to wherever they believe they are destined for, someone will take over. That's not living; that's existing. While I often say, "I'm just happy to be here." I look at it as a saying, but people are actually happy to be here because they could be somewhere else; somewhere far worse than the hell they "exist" in. There's a saying, "Everybody dies, but nobody lives." I refuse to believe that.

I choose to live. I choose to walk into the new year with my head held high because I have 365-some days to make the best out of my time in my human life and I am going to take them; every opportunity that knocks on my door, I will accept it.

Someone is looking outside and thinking of a better tomorrow, but they're grateful that they were able to live today; I'm thankful for every breath I take, but when I complain, it does become easy to forget the little things like that. Looking back, 2018 was easily the hardest year for me in all of my adolescent life, but I know it was harder for others. Going into the new year, I hope everyone everywhere has a better year filled with love, positivity, and good fortune.

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