Six Reasons Why I Stopped Searching For Love
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Six Reasons Why I Stopped Searching For Love

I am no longer searching for Mr. Right.

Asphen Beard
Nov 21, 2016
Arkansas Tech University
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Six Reasons Why I Stopped Searching For Love

1. Tinder Is Hopeless

We live in a generation where everyone is searching for their tinderella or tinder charming. We hope that with a quick swipe to the left or right we are going to find our future wife/husband. In all reality, it is a never ending game of losing.

2. I Have A Lifetime Ahead Of Me


Let's get real, I am only 20 years old. There is nothing wrong with falling in love at a young age, but why search for it? I have many more years ahead of me. I might as well enjoy my youth while I can.

3. I Am a College Student

Being a college student, I barely have enough time to breath. I would rather be napping than looking for "the one."

4. Boys Are Mean


Guys my age are NOT serious. They do not want a real relationship. They want replies to their 1:27am texts. With that being said, it all just ends in distracting, heart break.

5. I Am Indecisive


I change my mind in a million times a day. I literally change my clothes three to four times a day and stand in the Starbucks line too long. I. Do. Not. Know. What. I. Want.

6. He's Out There

I know it is cliche to say, but he is out there somewhere. We may see each other daily or he may be across the nation. When our time comes, we will find each other. As for now... I am just going to live.

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