Life is often unfair in many cases. Expectations don’t usually work in a positive way, which means it often leads to deception. However, one can always manage not to let deception triumph over one’s lives. People don’t usually speak up their minds. Those who usually do are often indiscreet, extremely in love, or passionate. It is a wise thing to exercise indulgence in order to be able to critically discern how we tend to relate to someone who dares revealing their passion for us.
In a daily basis, people come and go, and so many interactions take place. Many encounters are often in mood to look up for someone that they find either attractive, sister-like minded, or goal oriented to pair up. One thing that complicates everything and brings more anxiety on oneself often lies in the inability to approach someone and say what we want to say. Mindful and cautious people often try to tell what they think are politically correct, phrasing their thoughts in a way to avoid hurting people’s emotion. These folks often leave with a sentiment of dissatisfaction after a dialog with their desired encounters, because the failure to speak up one’s mind brings these times of panic, anxiety, and overthinking. Such situations don’t usually exist to indiscreet folks. Once being under control of drugs, or distracted stimuli, these people often tend to speak up their minds ten times easier than other folks who tend to be politically correct.
It turns out that the more one tends to shy away from speaking up one’s mind to those concerned, the more likely it is for one’s heart to be broken later in life. Reality is not known until being chased and discovered. We must learn to speak up what our heart desires, and what preoccupies our minds. There will always be negative or positive outcomes in everything we do, and every strategy we follow to live a politically correct life has its own flaws. Believe me or not, it is true that we will cross educated or polite people who understand what does that mean “to have a crush on” them, and who will not take it for grant. We won’t know until we experience it, since nobody can be judged by appearance in this twenty first century anymore. What can be painful is speaking up one’s mind to a rude, immature, indecisive, or too liberal person who give no time to live on someone else's shoes. Such encounters will bring regret, sentiments of self-hatred, anxiety and low self-esteem on us when we let their stalking take over our lives.
This piece is to let you know that it is a good thing to always try to be true to yourself, to speak up what is hurting inside you, or to always hit your target point as need be. Being too cautious about negative outcomes, or bad occurrences is not really a well justified defense. You must be brave, curious and flexible in every aspect of life to move forward, which is to say preventing painful situations can lead to more painful ones. Speak up what is hurting inside you, now!
