8 Signs To Watch For If You're Interested In A Guy

8 Signs To Watch For If You're Interested In A Guy

I'm just looking out for you all!

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These are all signs to steer clear of when trying to find the right guy for you! I promise you, it won't get you very far besides pretty much heartbroken when you start to fall for them then they turn out too be the exact same way they said they would never be!

1.If they come to you first and are very assertive:

Look out, he's only looking for one thing!

2. Watch out for the way they carry themselves:

  1. Because 9/10 times it shows what he's trying to get out of them...whether it be a relationship or just to mess with your head!

3. If they only snap you at night:

If they only snapchat you at night, that means they aren't actually into you, they only want to know what you got..

4. If they keep having to remind you they aren't talking to other girls: 

They are usually talking to multiple girls, and they are only telling you they aren't to make themselves feel better and like less of a jerk!

5. If they wear sweatpants with them tucked into their socks:

If they walk around with their sweatpants tucked into their socks, I can bet you mommy and daddy still pay for everything so they don't actually care about anything..including you!

6. Steer clear of THE hair cut:

and by THE hair cut I mean the one that is short on the sides and longer on the top with the razor line on the side...don't @ me if you have this hair cut..

7. THE chin strap

Don't get me wrong it's sexy as heck, but 9/10 times the strap is a trap! No it's not always the case, but sometimes!

8. Im not like other guys:

If he hits you with the I'm not like other guys...you should definitely just stop talking to him right then and there because he is most definitely like the other guys!

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I'd Rather Be Single Than Settle – Here Is Why Being Picky Is Okay

They're on their best behavior when you're dating.
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Dating nowadays described in one word: annoying.

What's even more annoying? when people tell you that you're being too "picky" when it comes to dating. Yes, from an outside perspective sometimes that's exactly what it looks like; however, when looking at it from my perspective it all makes sense.

I've heard it all:

"He was cute, why didn't you like him?"

"You didn't even give him a chance!"

"You pay too much attention to the little things!"

What people don't understand is that it's OKAY to be picky when it comes to guys. For some reason, girls in college freak out and think they're supposed to have a boyfriend by now, be engaged by the time they graduate, etc. It's all a little ridiculous.

However, I refuse to put myself on a time table such as this due to the fact that these girls who feel this way are left with no choice but to overlook the things in guys that they shouldn't be overlooking, they're settling and this is something that I refuse to do.

So this leaves the big question: What am I waiting for?

Well, I'm waiting for a guy who...

1. Wants to know my friends.

Blessed doesn't even begin to describe how lucky I am to have the friends that I do.

I want a guy who can hang out with my friends. If a guy makes an effort to impress your friends then that says a lot about him and how he feels about you. This not only shows that he cares about you but he cares about the people in your life as well.

Someone should be happy to see you happy and your friends contribute to that happiness, therefore, they should be nothing more than supportive and caring towards you and your friendships.

2. Actually, cares to get to know me.

Although this is a very broad statement, this is the most important one. A guy should want to know all about you. He should want to know your favorite movie, favorite ice cream flavor, favorite Netflix series, etc. Often, (the guys I get stuck on dates with) love to talk about themselves: they would rather tell you about what workout they did yesterday, what their job is, and what they like to do rather than get to know you.

This is something easy to spot on the first date, so although they may be "cute," you should probably drop them if you leave your date and can recite everything about their life since the day they were born, yet they didn't catch what your last name was.

3. How they talk about other women.

It does not matter who they're talking about, if they call their ex-girlfriend crazy we all know she probably isn't and if she is it's probably their fault.

If they talk bad about their mom, let's be honest, if they're disrespecting their mother they're not going to respect you either. If they mention a girl's physical appearances when describing them. For example, "yeah, I think our waitress is that blonde chick with the big boobs"

Well if that doesn't hint they're a complete f* boy then I don't know what else to tell you. And most importantly calling other women "bitches" that's just disrespectful.

Needless to say, if his conversations are similar to ones you'd hear in a frat house, ditch him.

4. Phone etiquette.

If he can't put his phone down long enough to take you to dinner then he doesn't deserve for you to be sitting across from him.

If a guy is serious about you he's going to give you his undivided attention and he's going to do whatever it takes to impress you and checking Snapchat on a date is not impressive. Also, notice if his phone is facedown, then there's most likely a reason for it.

He doesn't trust who or what could pop up on there and he clearly doesn't want you seeing. Although I'm not particularly interested in what's popping up on their phones, putting them face down says more about the guy than you think it does.

To reiterate, it's okay to be picky ladies, you're young, there's no rush.

Remember these tips next time you're on a date or seeing someone, and keep in mind: they're on their best behavior when you're dating. Then ask yourself, what will they be like when they're comfortable? Years down the road? Is this what I really want? If you ask yourself these questions you might be down the same road I have stumbled upon, being too picky.. and that's better than settling.

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