I know what you're thinking. How am I about to give relationship-y (just created that term) advice when I've never actually been in one in college? Rest assured, though, because I actually find myself to be quite knowledgeable on this subject.
To be honest, modern-day dating is hard. I constantly feel tempted to just relent and let go of some or parts of my values; however, I never really can. We live in an age where it seems everyone just wants you to settle. It's like knowing you're a Coke, but constantly being asked, "Is Pepsi okay?" No. In fact, Pepsi is not okay. And for people who don't understand this, tell them to go find a new soda fountain.
Here is a short explanation:
1. I know my worth.
And not in a "look at me, I'm so fabulous!" way (okay, maybe slightly), but more in like a "I know my actual worth could never come from earthly people, but instead from a Heavenly Father who has poured His goodness into me over and over again" kind of way.
2. I'm happy on my own.
While it would be nice to get free Chick-fil-a every two days, here's a crazy thought: I actually enjoy spending time with myself. It's so nice sometimes to just breakaway from the craziness around me and be at peace with my surroundings.
3. I have better things to do with my time than waste it.
You know, like I could instead go download the new Kimojis (Kim Kardashian's line of emojis...don't ask; they're life changing!) or binge watch "The Office" for the seventh time. Truth be told, I have no interest in wasting my time on something that's not ever going to come to fruition.
4. Even though it is difficult, I've seen my friends find great relationships.
And I know this for sure because I constantly third wheel. This is from first-hand experience, people. All of my best friends that have boyfriends didn't settle; therefore, I know it's possible.
5. By just settling with someone, you're potentially losing out on someone really amazing.
It's like if Brad Pitt would've just settled with Jennifer Anniston. Like Jennifer is great and amazing and talented, but she's no Angelina. You're shorting yourself the opportunity to meet someone perfect for you. And you know what, here's the big kicker: sometimes that someone really amazing is actually yourself.
So for now, at least, I'll gladly be paying for my own Chick-fil-a twice a week and butting into all my friend's relationships (my apologies.)
