Moving back home in the face of what is happening in our world can seem daunting to a lot of college aged kids. In college they were able to experience freedom for the first time, make choices based on what they wanted to do, and for the most part didn’t have to listen to any input from the people around them. With COVID-19 sweeping our nation and colleges across the country closing, students are having to move home rapidly and without much adjustment putting pressure on them and their families. Due to tensions already being high it’s very easy for family arguments to start and set off like wildfire.

There are a few ways to help with this transitional period like sitting down and having a conversation with your family. Maybe your parents are mad because you’re staying out late or going out and not telling them where. Talk out both sides of the way you feel and then come to a compromise. Maybe now you just text them “Hey I’m going here and I’ll be back around this time.” Communication is key. Another thing you can try is reminding them they you are an adult who needs to start making adult decisions (while also taking on adult responsibilities) and that tryout family needs to understand this. Most of all try to remember that your family loves you and only wants what’s best and for you to be healthy. These are uncertain times and with people stressed out it’s easy to forget what’s most important.