There's that one person who you opened up to, spent a lot of your time with and potentially gave your heart to. You started to fall for him. He made you happy, but there came a point where he didn't make you happy anymore, and instead, he broke you. Does this ring a bell? You may ask yourself, what was the point of his presence in your life? You may actually never know, and that is a tough pill to swallow.
Meeting someone and having a connection with someone is really great and super exciting. Falling for someone is scary and exciting all at the same time. You have to open up and let someone into your life and you are unsure if they will stay, but it is a risk that is worth taking if it means meeting the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with.
You opened up, let him in your life, and told him things nobody else knows, but that wasn't enough. He still walked out of your life and shattered your heart on his way out. He leaves you broken and confused. What now? What did you do? You ask yourself if there is something wrong with you, why don't guys ever stay? You start to want to give up on love and start building up your walls higher than before.
If you think about it there was a reason behind that relationship. There is a reason that God puts every single person in your life. Even if you are not sure of that reason, it is all part of God's plan for your life and that person was placed in your life to teach you a lesson and to help you grow.
So, let me ask you a question. If you had the chance to meet him all over again, would you? If you knew that he would break your heart? If you knew how it ended, would you still choose to meet him? There is no right or wrong answer to this question, it is personal preference. If it could spare you the heartbreak you probably wouldn't, but if you knew you would become a better and stronger person you would probably endure the heartbreak.
You will heal, it just takes time. There is no pain like heartbreak and it sucks and there is no healing time frame, but you will ultimately learn something from it in the long run. You will become a better person. As hard as it is, you will be okay, you will live and you will be stronger. My advice to you if you did have the chance to meet him all over again, I think you should, because it happened for a reason and there is a reason that he was in your life.
