Dear Future Husband
Start writing a post
relationships

A Letter To My Future Husband

Here are a few things you should know.

925
instagram.com
Gabriel Conte

I have absolutely no idea who you are, but I do know this, I love you and I cannot wait to be your wife. I may have already met you, or maybe I haven't, but, none of that matters to me now. Right now, I'm 19 years old and in college, not focusing on a relationship. Today, I'm writing you this because there are some things I want you to know.

I'll love you forever, and that's a fact. I can say with certainty that if I'm choosing to marry you, it's because I'm absolutely positive you're the right person for me. I don't go into things lightly, I take everything (including myself) seriously, and this was in no way an impulse decision. That's just not who I am.

I will love you and do things for you, but I won't be that woman that stays at home while you have a career. I'm fine with making sacrifices for you and our marriage, but just know that my career is important to me. I'm not going to school for 4 years studying and working hard just to stay at home. I want to have a career and I plan on keeping it that way.

If I'm ever hesitant or unsure about where things are headed, help me by reassuring me things are okay. I have some trust issues as you'll find due to a rough past, but I don't let that stop me from pursuing relationships or friendships. Just know that I'll always love and adore you, it just helps me to know where you're at too.

I refuse to live anywhere that's cold unless it's necessary for my job. I prefer 75 degree weather year round if I can help it. Nowhere's perfect, but I'm thinking California? We can decide together, just know that if you bring up anywhere that's colder than 50 degrees, it's an automatic veto.

I'm stubborn as hell, you can quote me on that. I won't back down from something unless I know I was wrong or I should stop. It's not you, it's really me. I'm stubborn and I refuse to see things the way others do, but it's okay.

Overall, I'm excited to see who you will be and our life together. Right now, I'm young and not looking for love, but one day I know I will be and you'll be there. I can't wait, and I hope you're excited too.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

94038
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments