We have all gone through the change of having friends. We grow up with friends and we may or may not still be friends with them today. However, there will be a time in our lives that a group of people or a specific person enters and it changes everything. Well, unfortunately, I am in that stage of my life. Have you ever felt so comfortable around people and then BOOM, out of nowhere you have been banished for having your own thoughts? Well, I have and it is so much fun. NOT. Lately, I have been dealing with a lot of people that I guess you can call Regina George. I mean, we are in our 20s, not in high school. Get over yourself.
I do not like being told that I am a bad person with a bad attitude, considering when I am doing literally nothing wrong. I mean come on who likes being told that? No one of course! However, if you have a problem with me, tell me to my face. Do not, I repeat DO NOT hide behind a screen. Bye Felicia! I like to live my life the way I do.
I have entered a moment in my young life where I do not care about kicking people out. I do not care if you are dating a friend of mine or I have known you for YEARS. I do not like hypocrites, liars, just rude people in general.
So here is my advice to all of you who have to deal with that same thing,
1. Get angry about it. Vent to the people who are hurting you. Now they would have to be repeat offenders. And just do not care about what you say.
2. Cry about it. It is okay to cry a river and feel depressed. I know I have continuously cried to my boyfriend about how these people in our lives or my life hurt me.
3. Just shrug it off. Eventually, you will just let their comments roll off of your shoulder. You will show them that they do not matter to you and nothing they can say or do will bother you.
I understand this may seem shady, but this is one way to express my feelings. Nothing in this world will ever get to me ever again.
If you are in the same room as them because you have to be, say hi and bye and ignore them. They may want to start something or throw nasty looks your way, but that is A-OKAY! You are the bigger person no matter what anybody says.
To all of the people in my life currently, PEACE OUT CUB SCOUT!
