How The Answer To "Who Is The Most Important Person In Your Life And Why?" Changes With Age
Start writing a post
Relationships

How The Answer To "Who Is The Most Important Person In Your Life And Why?" Changes With Age

As we get older, priorities, mindsets and the people in our lives change.

6619
How The Answer To "Who Is The Most Important Person In Your Life And Why?" Changes With Age
Pexels

When someone asks me who the most important person in my life is... it seems as though my answer is automatically programmed to respond with "my mom" or "my dad." Very cliche and not very well thought out answers. Now of course my parents are by far the most important people in my life... but I wanted myself to really think about why and develop an answer to this question that was spot on and detailed.

As I was asking myself this question, I became curious. Curious as to who my parents thought was the most important person in their life. Then curious as to who some of my friends answers would be and then even my grandparents. I became curious of what people answers would be throughout all walks of life... so I started asking. Here are some of the answers I received from people with all different ages.

"My sister. She is the best sister in the whole world and even when we fight, we look back and laugh." - Age 14

"My little brother. I know it's harder on him not having our dad here than it is for me, so it makes me feel the need to set a good example for him and teach him the same principles that my dad taught me. He's got such and undeniable light in his personality, and it's quite infectious. He never stops laughing and I hope he never loses that. I want to provide him with more opportunities than I had when I was his age and going through high school. I want to keep him open minded and let him know that he can achieve anything he wants." - Age 19

"My dad. He showed me my love of the outdoors and how a man should work and take care of his family. How to never quit and do everything right no matter how many times it takes." - Age 20

"Your mom is the most important person in my life. First and foremost, she gave me two wonderful children that I can love and cherish. Secondly, she is the best mother, wife and partner that any man could ever ask for." - Age 41

"My husband. He helps me stay grounded, holds me when I'm sad and laughs with me in happiness. He is my life mate. There is one other that is more important though. My Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. When I leave the loving arms of my husband, He has a home waiting for me." - Age 76

As we get older, priorities, mindsets and the people in our lives change. Who the most important person in my life today is may change over the next few years and will most likely be different 50 years from now. One thing that remains the same is the love we have for the people who mean the most to us. This is so reassuring when not much else remains constant.


Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

98004
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments