Us girls have had out fair share of boys who we have fallen for who aren't looking to settle down in a relationship. They hit you up, act like they're really into you and then hit you with the "Oh, I'm not looking for a girlfriend." Or, "I don't want a relationship." I've had quite a few of those experiences, until one day I changed up my game of how I said things and how I acted when I met another guy who definitely isn't known for having relationships. This person happens to be my boyfriend now.
Here's 8 tips of advice on how to get that boy head over heels for you:
1. Make him know how much you're worth
Really show him that you're one of a kind. Don't give in as much, kind of shove him in the back to show him that you are your own person and won't wait around or always make time for him.
2. Don't put out
It's known and stereotypical that guys this age are pretty much only looking for hookups. Yes, he may have been sweet-talking you all week, but if you really want to keep him around for a while, don't put out right away. Show him that you want more than just a hookup.
3. Don't be afraid to make the first move
Really... don't be afraid. It shows him that you're interested and not always just waiting around for him to contact you. I made the first move on my current boyfriend and we're still going strong!
4. Ask to go on dates
If he's always inviting you over to his house at a late hour to "Netflix and Chill," that isn't a very good sign. Ask him to grab some ice cream or have dinner some night. Do something that's fun for the both of you to peak his interest.
5. Make him wait
Don't sit around and wait for him all day. He's a person just like us, so he's probably busy. Give him some space, if you see he's texted you, don't respond right away. Show him that you have other things to do than wait for his text/call.
6. Flirt!
You obviously got to flirt with him to make him know you're interested in him! Guys can be pretty oblivious. Tell him the things you really like about him.
7. Look the best you can
Try to get extra glam on the days/nights that you see each other. Make him want to see you more! You want them to notice how great you're looking and feeling that night.
8. Tell him that you're into him
Don't wait for him to tell you, tell him first if you really like him. Chances are if you tried you're best in getting him to like you and he kept coming back to hang out, chances are he's into you too! Now go get that boy and show him who's in order!
