What Happens Within The First Week Of Being A 30 Year Old

What Happens Within The First Week Of Being A 30 Year Old

Life Begins

On the morning of February 12th, 2017 I began the first year of my 30s. A new decade, a new chapter of my life to explore the endless possibilities that life will offer me. What a blessing. What a time to be thankful and grateful for living through my 20s and being able to stand tall after all the mistakes I've made. I've accomplished much as well. I won't be selling myself short for sure.

Over the past 12 months, I've thought of what it would feel like to be 30. Would I feel older? Would I look in the mirror and notice a barely visible fine line? Nope, it's been a little over a week since I made the transition from my 20s, and I can say nothing physically has changed. I have the same beautiful smile, dimples, hair that kinks tightly. There are a few extra beauty marks on my neck and chest. They are hereditary. Just a sign of familial beauty.

One thing that is different now is my intent on living fully. I've dropped a significant amount of focus on other people and situations I cannot control. Every now and then, I get off track. I am only human. But I've made it a priority to be aware of this. When it happens I forgive myself and get back on track quickly. For a long time, I felt guilty or selfish for desiring certain things for myself. Unfortunately, women are often saddled with the burden of caring for and giving to everyone but themselves. But for me, now I am unapologetic for what I want and who I am becoming. My accomplishments mean something whether big or small. I celebrate my strength.

It's okay not to have all the answers. No one knows everything, and if they claim to know, they're full of horse manure. It's easy to be bitter about past mistakes. I could claim that to be the reason that I do not have everything I want now. But it would benefit me more to redirect that energy into getting me the life my heart desires.

I am committed to constantly moving. Visiting a new museum, seeing a new show, writing new content. I will take the first step towards achieving new feats, even if I cannot see the whole staircase. I see the beauty of my life and accept that it is great compared to others with similar circumstances and characteristics. There is just enough space to be whoever I want to be.

The small things in life are really priceless. Time spent with special people transcends time itself. Thirty felt old only because literally 100% of my life has been as a young person. Life begins at 30. Everything before was trial and error. Chin up, shoulders back.

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A Letter To My Go-To Aunt

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I know I don't say it enough, so let me start off by saying thank you.

You'll never understand how incredibly blessed I am to have you in my life. You'll also never understand how special you are to me and how much I love you.

I can't thank you enough for countless days and nights at your house venting, and never being too busy when I need you. Thank you for the shopping days and always helping me find the best deals on the cutest clothes. For all the appointments I didn't want to go to by myself. Thank you for making two prom days and a graduation party days I could never forget. Thank you for being overprotective when it comes to the men in my life.

Most importantly, thank you for being my support system throughout the numerous highs and lows my life has brought me. Thank you for being honest even when it isn't what I want to hear. Thank you for always keeping my feet on the ground and keeping me sane when I feel like freaking out. Thank you for always supporting whatever dream I choose to chase that day. Thank you for being a second mom. Thank you for bringing me into your family and treating me like one of your own, for making me feel special because you do not have an obligation to spend time with me.

You've been my hero and role model from the time you came into my life. You don't know how to say no when family comes to you for help. You're understanding, kind, fun, full of life and you have the biggest heart. However, you're honest and strong and sometimes a little intimidating. No matter what will always have a special place in my heart.

There is no possible way to ever thank you for every thing you have done for me and will continue to do for me. Thank you for being you.

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Your Health Journey Is A Marathon, Not A Sprint

Perfection takes time.


When you first start to do something, you have all of the motivation in the world to accomplish that goal set out in front of you, especially when it comes to being healthier. The problem is as you continue through this journey and food and laziness kick in, motivation slips. It's human, and it happens to everyone no matter how physically strong they are.

Trying to be healthier doesn't always mean losing weight. It can be so your knees don't ache as much, so you don't feel as out of breath climbing stairs, or any goal you have set for yourself. Being healthier is personal and different from person to person.

I will be the first to admit that there are plenty of changes I would love to make about myself. From my weight to my body type and many other things about myself inside and out. I am by no means the most confident person about how I look, but I have worked hard for the past year to be an overall healthier person.

Becoming healthier isn't about looking thinner or fitting into a specific size of clothes. It is about taking care of yourself from eating better to working out more. There comes a feeling of confidence in what your body can do if you put a little love in it.

Perfection takes time, and I know firsthand how frustrating trying to be healthier can be.

Pizza tastes so much better than salad. It is so easy to fall into a rhythm of something that seems never to change whether that is your weight or your mile time. Sadly, you can't build a city, or become healthier overnight.

We see people who are thinner, curvier, smarter, faster, and so much more than us. We all waste time comparing ourselves to people around us and on our timelines, but some of our biggest strengths are our individuality and the gift of getting back up after falling down.

All I can say is, please don't give up on your goal of being healthier because this is solely for you. We can have a great support system in the world and have everyone in our corner, but that isn't enough.

You need yourself. You need to know that if you don't entirely put yourself in this journey, then you won't fully succeed. Your commitment to bettering yourself can keep you going even if you want to give up.

Your motivation may not be at its peak level right now, and you may have every cell in your body screaming at you to quit. Don't do it. Prove to yourself that you can keep going no matter what. Not giving up will be worth it. The results and taking the hard way will make you a stronger person inside and out.

You can do this. You can do anything you want to accomplish if you just believe in yourself. You need to understand that becoming healthier takes endurance. There will be periods where you slow down and may not be going at your fastest pace. The difference is that you are not giving up and you are still trying and moving.

Don't treat becoming healthier as a sprint: short term and quick. That mentality will only leave you feeling deflated and defeated. It is a life-long marathon of pacing yourself and pushing yourself further than ever before.

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