Ever meet those people who clearly have never had a true best friend, because if they did, they would understand the girl code. Girl code is pretty straight forward, and very clear. One, never date a friend’s ex, or someone they happen to be crushing on at the same time. Two, dating a family member of a friend, never ends well, so steer clear of that situation. “Don’t date any of your friends ex boyfriends. It shouldn’t even be questioned. The answer is no.”(Gossip Girl) Third, never dare flirt with a friend’s boyfriend, that is a downward spiral, and potential death situation. Fourth, siblings are off limits, same with close guy friends, it is recommended that you ask permission instead of forgiveness. Fifth, never disconnect yourself from your friends, just to become a clingy girlfriend, you will eventually have no friends or a boy for that matter. “If you cry over a guy, then your friends can’t date him. It can’t even be considered.”(Pinterest Quotes)
There are some girls, who as much as it is explained to them, the rules of women and men they still cannot comprehend any of it. Those people suck. Those few certain people you meet in college that open up and mention how they never had really close or even good girlfriends in high school make you question and wonder why. And then you realize, oh they are those girls. Those girls who do not understand the meaning of boundaries, and what is and is not okay to do in certain situations. The obnoxious ones who think they are all that and a bag of chips, constantly telling themselves they can have any guy they want. They are just fooling themselves, no guy wants a girl who could be described as a welcome mat, unless they are really that desperate.
For the girls who follow the spoken rules of the girl code, you should know a few things. First of all, stay clear of the girls who have no respect for themselves or others, because in the long run, they will not have your back. They will just end back-stabbing you instead.
Every female should follow the rules of the girl code. And if they do not, well just expect no real friends, all fake ones, and have a reputation of the girl to call to just have a little fun but never for anything steady or longterm. It is up to you, who do you choose to be? What defines you?
