Fitness, And All The Stereotypes Associated With It

Fitness, And All The Stereotypes Associated With It

I am working on myself, for myself, by myself. That's how it should be.

Ive been finding it hard for me to sit down and write because I've been a bit uninspired lately. However, I have fallen in love with my passion and future career again.

I have dedicated myself to becoming a healthier me both physically and mentally. Exercising at least 5 times a week and thoroughly enjoying pushing my body to new limits and beginning to study to become a personal trainer and fully delve into my love for fitness. However, as I've started to venture further into the world of fitness I've learned a lot of things, both good and bad.

We all know those fitness insporation accounts or "fitspo" accounts that we all follow in hopes it will make our lazy bums get out of bed and turn away from Netflix and actually head to the gym. However, have we actually stood in the mirror and looked at our bodies compared to those in the posts we obsess over? One of the most important things I learned in my exercise science intro class was to make goals for yourself that are personalized to your body and to your reality, not that of others. So my question is, why do we spend precious minutes and hours wishing, praying, and hoping to become false realities?

I learned a long time ago that I will never be a size 2 model with a perfectly sculpted thigh gap and eternally tiny tummy. Growing up, that was hard for me to accept because I wanted so badly to look like all the girls I followed on social media and saw on TV. But now, I love my skin. My curves, my cellulite, my broad shoulders, and I make sure that the goals I set for myself are appropriate for ME. I am working on myself, for myself, by myself. That's how it should be.

With that said, there are a few issues I have with some things I've seen on my social media recently. As I've started to follow more and more personal trainers, fitness instructors, and role models to help keep myself motivated, I've noticed something rather disturbing. Women are being criticized for being "too skinny to post about fitness", "too fat to be working out", and "too muscular to be a woman". I see the exact same things on male trainers pages too. Men, just because you can't throw a weight over your head and scream while doing so doesn't make unhealthy or any less of a man. Since when did someone's health become defined by their outward appearance and when did it become okay for someone's personal fitness goals have to appeal to society? Everyone starts somewhere and the most important part is that you start.

It infuriates me to see women AND men being discouraged from wanting to make a positive change in their life because they're scared to be judged in the gym or on social media. Whether someone wants to simply keep their blood pressure in check or if they want to lift 300 lbs. above their head, it does not concern anyone else besides those individuals. So to everyone out there who feels they need to concern themselves with the well being of others, mind your own goddamn business and take some pointers.

Cover Image Credit: Bishop Hayes Catholic School

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5 Perks Of Having A Long-Distance Best Friend

The best kind of long-distance relationship.

Sometimes, people get annoyed when girls refer to multiple people as their "best friend," but they don't understand. We have different types of best friends. There's the going out together best friend, the see each other everyday best friend and the constant, low maintenance best friend.

While I'm lucky enough to have two out of the three at the same school as me, my "low maintenance" best friend goes to college six hours from Baton Rouge.

This type of friend is special because no matter how long you go without talking or seeing each other, you're always insanely close. Even though I miss her daily, having a long-distance best friend has its perks. Here are just a few of them...

1. Getting to see each other is a special event.

Sometimes when you see someone all the time, you take that person and their friendship for granted. When you don't get to see one of your favorite people very often, the times when you're together are truly appreciated.

2. You always have someone to give unbiased advice.

This person knows you best, but they probably don't know the people you're telling them about, so they can give you better advice than anyone else.

3. You always have someone to text and FaceTime.

While there may be hundreds of miles between you, they're also just a phone call away. You know they'll always be there for you even when they can't physically be there.

4. You can plan fun trips to visit each other.

When you can visit each other, you get to meet the people you've heard so much about and experience all the places they love. You get to have your own college experience and, sometimes, theirs, too.

5. You know they will always be a part of your life.

If you can survive going to school in different states, you've both proven that your friendship will last forever. You both care enough to make time for the other in the midst of exams, social events, and homework.

The long-distance best friend is a forever friend. While I wish I could see mine more, I wouldn't trade her for anything.

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10 Ways To Keep Your Workout Motivation According To A Personal Trainer

"ALEXA play 'Work Bitch' by Britney Spears."


Keeping your motivation for working out is one of the number one reasons why I think people fail to achieve their fitness goals.

Now I am no "fitness guru" by any means, and I have lost my motivation many times and worked back up.

No one is perfect when it comes to working out, and everyone can have different methods that are successful but from what I have seen, and talking to a few personal trainers, these are some of the best ways to keep your motivation and not lose track of your goals.

If you stick to these 10 ways, you will definitely have a better mindset when it comes to working out, and that will help you push yourself hard because you know that you are capable of much more than you think!

That is the last piece of advice I will leave you with, you are so much more capable of than you think. I recall so many times in the gym, I've thought I was gonna just collapse or crumble cause I was so tired, but time and time again I persevere and finish a set, and see that I can really push myself to the limits, and this is when I've seen the best results.

1. Talk about your goals.

You have to speak your goals into existence. Also speaking about them to others can help hold you accountable and you are working so hard for them, don't give up and let what you accomplished so far go to waste!

2. Get a consistent workout buddy.

This is something that I have found helps me out a lot, my roommate Jordan and I are always checking in on each other to make sure that we've worked out!

3. Want better for yourself, not to impress someone else.

This is also very important, if you have fitness goals solely to impress someone else, you will never be satisfied, or never feel like enough.

4. Want it more than you say.

You really have to want your fitness goals more than you are saying. If you have this goal that is driving you constantly in the back of your mind, your motivation will keep coming from within.

5. Have a scheduled workout plan.

If you have a workout plan that a professional or yourself has constructed, it gives you something to follow and not break. Having a plan for yourself will help keep yourself on track.

6. Take pictures every week!

Seems cheesy, but taking photos of yourself every week can hold you accountable but more importantly, you are able to see results, big or small, if you aren't seeing them in person, you'll be able to tell through the photos.

7. Know what your plan is before you go to the gym.

You should know what your plan is before you go to the gym, try not to just wing it. If you are winging it, who knows if you are really pushing yourself and constantly challenging yourself every gym session.

8. Try your best to maintain a healthy diet during the week.

This can be difficult of course, meal prepping is someting that can always helps! BUT if you don't have time to meal prep, then just go to the grocery store and buy a bunch of healthy snacks to eat throughout the day to keep your motabalism working. Get foods to fuel your body so all your hard workouts don't go to waste!

9. Stick to a plan, it'll be hard at first, but it only gets easier.

Once you get into the swing of things, get into a routine, you'll get used to it. And then you will truly enjoy it, feel great, and have more energy!

10. Surround yourself with others that also have the same goals as you.

As cliche as it is, you do pick up the traits of the people you surround yourself with. If you surround yourself with overachievers, hard workers, who have the same fitness goals as you, you'll all work hard together and encourage each other along the way!

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