Dear Husband,
"I never promised you a ray of light, I never promised there'd be sunshine everyday. I give you everything I have the good the bad".
I know I haven't been the best wife towards you because my actions say one thing, but my heart says another. I know I may not communicate as much like the way you want me to, but I'm working on it. Most days I act real childish and selfish, but you still put up with me, even after every little or big fight. Sometimes I'm happy, sometimes I'm angry, or sometimes I cry. To see how things have changed, how we have changed as a couple. Everyone says the first year of marriage is always the hardest and they are right. It's not always going to be rainbows, butterflies, and heart eyes there's gonna be many tough times. There's gonna be good times and there's gonna be bad times. I'm sure it will all balance out. I promise that I will always try my best to be a good wife to you and to never give up on you because at the end of the day you are my soulmate.
Before getting married to you many people told me it was a crazy idea to get married to someone I hardly even knew, That I was too young, and that people my age needed to travel the world, etc. Many people thought we got married too soon. I won't lie as a couple we moved pretty fast, most couples move pretty fast anyways. Since we were in a long distance relationship I felt that we knew one another as if we knew each other for years. There wasn't one day where I didn't hear from you. To me it was the best decision of my life knowing I was going to get married to you.
My question is to everyone who thought it was such a bad idea to get married so soon is, why wait? Why wait to get married to someone who you know you are destined to be with. Why not travel the world and do all those things with your spouse. And it also doesn't mean I don't know the person who I married. Being married I have learned new things about you just like any newly wedded couple does. I learn new things about you everyday. There should be no time limit on when you should get married. There should be no person on this earth keeping tabs on how long you've been with someone to be able to marry them. There is no law that says you have to be a certain age to marry the person that you want to be with forever. As long as you both are serious, something you both are ready for, and that you both are ready to commit to one another for the rest of your lives. That someone was you. Being married to the man of my dreams I don't regret it one bit because you are the best of me.
The day I married you I vowed myself to you, forever. So, here's a reminder of what I vowed to you.
Our Wedding Vows:
"Julian, Today I give myself to you.
I promise to encourage and inspire you.
To laugh with you and comfort you in times of sorrow and struggle.
I promise to love you in good times and in bad.
When life seems easy and when it seems hard.
When our love seems simple and when it is an effort.
I promise to cherish you, and to always hold you in the highest regard.
These things I give to you today, and all the days of our life".
Marrying you was the best day of my life, because I married my best friend. I was even welcomed into a brand new family that is so loving, caring, and helpful. I am blessed to say that I am one lucky person to have you and your family. I can't wait for the day that we get to create a family just like yours.
I just want to say thank you for everything that you have given me, everything that you have done for me, and that you will continue to do for our future. I don't even know how to repay you with everything that you have done for me. I'm glad you put up with such a hard headed, stubborn woman like me. I honestly don't know how you do it, but I'm glad that you do. I am one lucky wife to have scored such an amazing, hardworking, and dedicated husband/partner in life. There's not many men in this world like you nowadays. All I know is that you just have to try to be patient with me the way that you have been because we have forever to go honey. No matter how mad or upset we may both get at times just know deep, deep, like real deep down there's nobody else that can put me in my place like you can (this is me trying to be romantic). So, here's to forever with you!
I love you sooo much.
Sincerely,
Your Stubborn Wife.
