Change is a common fear we have. We like consistency. The realm of the unknown is scary for us to think about.
My favorite song "No Longer Slaves" by Bethel is an anthem for my life. I endured a lot of change, but that song has been a constant reminder that "My fears are drowned in perfect love." He loves us unconditionally so that we don't have to keep carrying the weight of our burdens.
The first major change I had was going from private to public school. For nine years I was around the same community. My private school consisted of about 300 students from K-12. So going to a public school with a 1000 or so students was scary,
I wanted to start a new adventure, but at the same time, I was fearful of not knowing what to expect. I was fearful of fitting in, making friends and making the grades I wanted. As I got used to my new school, I became more comfortable with my surroundings and those feelings went away. Through that transition, I learned to be prepared for anything that came my way.
I went through a lot of change in highschool. I attended three different high schools. While it was difficult to transition from each school, I was grateful for each experience. I was able to gain new perspectives from three different cultures.
One question I got when people heard that I switched so much is, "Do you regret any of it?" That's easy, no. Though it was hard at the moment, it challenged me to accept my circumstances. I became grateful and without those experiences, I wouldn't be who I am today.
The time from high school into college was a big step for me toward "the real world." Being in college and on my own, forced me to learn how to function without any guidance. At first, it was challenging, but I learned to love independence.
I didn't realize how much I relied on others help until I was on my own. The challenges I faced were the basics of time management, more responsibilities, friendships and etc. Although these were hard to handle at first, I learned to maneuver my way around as the semester continued.
My Grandfather told me to "celebrate the temporary." Throughout my life, I have experienced a lot of change. I used to fear change. I liked the way my life was, and I was closing myself to new opportunities.
I got over my fear of change when I went to three different high schools. I learned to embrace where I was and trust my Savior that He knows what He's doing. I told myself not to dwell on the past or worry about the future, but to be present and accept the changes.
Let yourself be fully open to new changes, don't resist the situation because, if you do, it will be harder for you. Whether it's change in education, friendships, activities, the work place or on and on, know that everything happens for a reason.
Even though it's hard not knowing what's going to happen, it's settling to know you're not alone ,and that your Savior will always provide for you. He will always guide us on the right paths if we look to Him instead our own will. I know change is hard, but it's worth it. As long as we have Christ in us ,He will bring us peace and guidance through the changes.





















