Do Not Be Dumb

Girls are sensitive, this is no secret

No matter what any girl says we all have feelings and there is always a way to hurt our feelings and somehow even if you do not know you did, you did

Now us girls are not perfect and yes, we can have bad attitudes and can be a little too much but you all already knew that too

So why make these things more difficult than they are

Why is it okay to sit around and toy with girls feelings and keep them on a string

so you can have your cake and eat it too? No

There are simple things that you can easily say to hurt a girls feelings and I promise she won't forget that one time two years ago when you told her she basically was not good enough for you.

A simple text through the day is better than not texting back for three days because you were "busy".

People do have lives and they have things to do but instead of being so confused why your girl is mad at you just because y'all did not text all day, here is a quick fix. If you have a lot to do that day you wake up and text or call her and say "Hey, I have a lot to do today and I may not be on my phone much, have a good day," it is that simple and she will probably be super happy you told her to have a good day.

BUT

If you are still wanting to flirt with other girls, text other girls, "netflix and chill," with multiple girls.... do not try to fool each and every one of them that "you are the only one I talk to". That is okay nobody said you had to be ready for a relationship but let her know you had no intentions to date this girl and do not keep her on that string because girls.. are sensitive!!!!! Always think about if they pulled a you on you.. Would you like it?

Do not lie, that makes every situation worse and that is exactly how your name gets ran through the dirt by the female population

Be honest, again, if you have absolutely no intentions of dating this girl, let her know.

I think in college or even just people in their early twenty's, a lot of them are so caught up in "I wanna party," "I don't wanna be tied down," "I am in college this is where you have fun," yes college is fun and growing up is a lot of fun but you also meet some of the greatest people as you grow in life too so do not rule out that super great girl because you want to go to a party or do whatever you want because eventually that will get old and you will have wished you took the time to hang out and get to know that really great girl.

The best advice to take is be kind and be honest, you can never go wrong with either one of those.