I was only seven when my Grandma got breast cancer, but I still knew it was scary. At first, I didn't even know it was cancer. All I knew was that my Grandma was sick and that my Mom was crying on the phone and that we were all going to visit Grandma. I found out while we were visiting that Grandma had cancer, and all I knew about cancer was that it's scary.

My Grandma was a breast cancer survivor. Although we lost her almost four years ago, she did survive her cancer. But breast cancer is still scary. My Grandma isn't the only one in her family that has had breast cancer.

I actually found out in the past couple of years that around the same time that my Grandma was sick, my Mom had abnormal mammogram results. She went back in for more testing and ended up being fine, but every time she goes in for her annual mammogram I hold my breath until I know that everything is okay.

So in case you're wondering why all of this is relevant, October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, and I think you need to be aware. You need to be aware that breast cancer touches many lives, and that it follows women around even after they have won the battle over their cancer.

You should be aware that many women who are diagnosed have no family history of breast cancer. Don't just assume there is no chance of your having cancer, be proactive and ask your doctor about self examinations. You can also look here for an easy to follow guide on self exams.

You need to be aware that, according to City of Hope, only about 42% of women choose to have a breast reconstructed after a mastectomy. Did you know that there are special bras made for women who have undergone either a double or a single mastectomy? I never fully understood a mastectomy until I saw a billboard for a bra shop selling this style of bra and asked my mom to explain.

You need to be aware that breast cancer and the many changes and choices that come with it are tough. You might already know that. But you need to be aware that you should take care of yourself. Visit the doctor, practice regular self examination, know your family history, and encourage the women in your life to do the same.