I Anonymously Found Out 50 Peoples Biggest Fears.

I Anonymously Found Out 50 Peoples Biggest Fears.

So, what is your biggest fear?

Fear - Noun - An unpleasant often strong emotion caused by anticipated or awareness of danger.

I set out with a goal in mind to find out anonymously 50 people's biggest fears. The results were shocking. Many of the fears listed are repeats, which speaks volumes about what people fear the most. It also shows that no fear is too unrealistic because a fear is a fear.

When asked, "What is your biggest fear?" these are the responses I collected:

  1. Dying in a car accident.
  2. Small spaces.
  3. Spiders.
  4. Losing everyone I care about.
  5. Becoming homeless.
  6. Rejection.
  7. Someone close to me dying.
  8. Being kidnapped.
  9. Drowning.
  10. Ending up alone in life.
  11. That someone won’t accept me for me.
  12. Not being able to be with the person I love in the future.
  13. Being alone.
  14. Being unsuccessful.
  15. Death.
  16. Alone - you can have all the money in the world but still be miserable with no one to share it with
  17. Letting people down.
  18. Birds.
  19. Drowning.
  20. Fire.
  21. Not succeeding in life.
  22. Being alone.
  23. Clowns.
  24. Being abandoned.
  25. Losing my loved ones.
  26. Being in poverty.
  27. Not being able to breathe.
  28. Spiders.
  29. Heights.
  30. Camels.
  31. Spiders.
  32. Cats - attacking.
  33. How I'll die- not dying.
  34. Having my mistakes cause me to lose those who are closest to me.
  35. The dark.
  36. Heights.
  37. To be alone.
  38. Failing.
  39. Clowns.
  40. My own self.
  41. Failure.
  42. That my father will pass away before I gain a relationship with him.
  43. Failure.
  44. Failure.
  45. Dying unhappy.
  46. Snakes.
  47. Not making my parents proud.
  48. Spiders.
  49. Losing my loved ones.
  50. Getting lost in the middle of the ocean alone.

After collecting the data, I noticed two reoccurring themes, being alone and failure. Alone and failure speak volumes. Why is it that our society is not okay with being alone? Why is it that failure scares the hell out of us? Both are natural things and should not be something to fear. If you're never alone and constantly surrounded by people, how are you expected to discover who you are? What you love, what you hate? What makes you tick? What songs make you cry and what movies make you smile? Being alone is a good thing, and it's something everyone should get comfortable with.

Failure is inevitable. If you never make a mistake in life, what's so fun about that? If I'm being honest with you, nobody is perfect, and we all make mistakes. Failure is also something everyone should get comfortable with. Without it, we would never learn from our mistakes and be able to better ourselves.

So, what is your biggest fear?

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You can’t keep track of the amount of mental breakdowns you’ve had, how much coffee you’ve consumed, or how many times you’ve called your mom to tell her that you’re dropping out. Nursing is no joke. Half the time it makes you want to go back and change your major, and the other half reminds you why you want to do this, and that is what gets you through it. The thing about being a nursing major is that despite all the difficult exams, labs and overwhelming hours of studying you do, you know that someday you might be the reason someone lives, and you can’t give up on that purpose. We all have our own reasons why we chose nursing -- everyone in your family is a nurse, it’s something you’ve always wanted to do, you’re good at it, or like me, you want to give back to what was given to you. Regardless of what your reasoning is, we all take the same classes, deal with the same professors, and we all have our moments.

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Sorry, Real Life Doesn't Have A "Safe Space" For Your Excuses

Your excuses are invalid. Take responsibility for your actions.


If I had a penny for every time I heard a college student use a pathetic excuse to get out of something, I would be a millionaire. It seems like every other person I meet these days has zero sense of responsibility in life. They're too sensitive, too unmotivated and just all around lazy. What's up with that?

Something that I don't think a lot of college students realize is that when this is all over, you get thrown out into the real world. You can't email your boss asking for project extensions; they will laugh in your face. You can't use "I have anxiety" as an excuse to get out of doing something. You can't get butthurt every time your boss comes down on your for not doing adequate work. That is life.

Sorry, but real life doesn't have a safe space for you. Your future employer won't baby you and hold your hand every step of the way. You won't be able to call in sick and skip work 3 times a week like you skip class. The real world has expectations and believe it or not, they are WAY more grueling than college.

People will judge you. You will get yelled at by your boss. Hard deadlines will be expected to be met. If you can't deal with it now, good luck to you out there because it only gets harder. I understand that everyone has their own issues in life, but if other people can get past theirs enough to work hard and be successful, your excuse is simply that: an excuse.

Life was never meant to be easy. The whole reason we applied to college was to be challenged and readied for our future careers. I will bet that almost every college student promised themselves they would work harder in college. Giving excuses isn't working harder, it's looking for the easy way out. The easy way might seem better in the short run, but it teaches you nothing and prepares you for nothing. Not to mention, people will get to know you as "that one moron that always has an excuse to not do their work." I don't know about everyone else, but that is the LAST way I would want to be known.

Instead of making an excuse, work harder. Be responsible. Meet deadlines, do your work early, manage your time. It really is simple when you look at it that way. Yeah, life gets stressful. Are you going to be the person who begs for their "safe space" and cries or are you going to get going and do what needs to be done? I know which person I would hire, that's for sure.

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