A Letter To The Family I Took For Granted
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A Letter To The Family I Took For Granted

Thanks for never giving up on me.

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A Letter To The Family I Took For Granted
Melissa Zeffero

Mom, Dad, Bobby, and Jonathan,

I was actually planning on writing something totally different. But for whatever reason, something told me it was about time to thank you for everything that you've done for me. As I've grown up, I realized how much I appreciate every little gesture you've ever done for me no matter how small, like driving me to a friends house or the hand made cards for my birthday. You are all so special to me and I can't imagine being a part of any other family.

I'll start with Mom. Honestly where do I even begin? I guess I can start by saying thanks for the 30+ hours of labor it took to bring me into this world. Being your first child, I've always felt as though we've been the closest out of the rest of the family. We've gone on numerous shopping trips, ice cream runs, and girls' weekends together, including an amazing New York excursion (even though it was supposed to be a 16th birthday present, but I guess right before college will do). You've relied on me a lot, and I've tried to be the best daughter I can for you. I know there have been times where I haven't treated you right, whether that's being mean for no reason or refusing to do something, and I hope you know how sorry I am. With my anxiety, I have good days and bad, but that's no excuse for taking it out on you. I love you so much and can't imagine living without someone so incredible. You do so much for this family and I am proud to call you my mom (Mother Theresa more specifically).

Next comes Dad. Our sports bond has always been strong, either through coaching me in almost every sport I've played or taking me to Michigan State football games. Being able to be coached by you since age six was amazing, but it came with its set of hardships. I knew you expected a lot from me, what with being a strong leader and at the same time trying not to question you because you were also my parent. I don't regret any of those moments. I'm so grateful I get to share those unique experiences with you. I know you've had some struggles in your life, but regardless, you are so inspirational to me. You've taught me what it really means to be a leader, both on the softball field and in life. You've proved that being a role model doesn't mean being perfect 24/7; it means that you have the strength and courage to know when you have to change--for better or for worse. Thank you for these and the many other lessons you've taught me.

Lastly, Bobby and Jonathan. I know we fight...like a lot. We know exactly how to push each other's buttons and which words will hurt the most. To be honest, I couldn't wait to get away from you two as I left for college last August. After being away from home for a long period of time, I've learned to cherish the moments where we don't want to kill each other. I know as the oldest, I should be setting the example for you guys. I also know that sometimes I don't do a very good job. Please know that I try really hard to be the best sister I can. I hope going forward we can learn to be better siblings to each other, because before we know it, we'll be off living on our own with full time jobs and families. I'm so happy I have two of the weirdest, yet funniest brothers in the world (perks for having you two instead of sisters is you never steal my clothes).

I know that sometimes I can be difficult to be around. I'm trying really hard to be more positive and hope that you four can understand. I love you all so much and I am extremely proud to be a Zeffero.

Sincerely (And With Much Love),

Your Daughter/Sister

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