You have the greatest care package Heaven could ever send you. It includes a shoulder to lean on, an inhaler for the times you can't stop laughing and tissues for the times she gives you the best advice about life, faith, love, etc.
She's definitely found a home away from home at your school. It's hard seeing y'all together on her Snapchat stories making new memories. But I'm OK with it because it's her time to be the person she’s always wanted to be. Our first college experiences like going out won’t be together but I’m happy she has you throughout this chapter of her life. Any person she deems worthy of friendship has my stamp of approval. But here are some things you should know.
1. You will hear a lot about me.
I don't mean it in a conceited way. We spent most of our teenage years giving each other homework answers, attending retreats and going through the painful family problems together. You will hear the same stories 20 times but pretend it's the first time you're hearing it.
2. I know more about you than you think.
We meet up at our elementary school parking lot to catch up on our new college lives. You are a big part of her new life, so of course you will be mentioned. I know who is currently dating in the friend group, who partied too hard last weekend, where you are originally from, and what your goals are in life, too.
3. She is the strongest person you will ever meet.
She has gone through hell and back in the past five years. Good and bad guys have been in her life. She's experienced it all (so I didn't have to). If you have a chance to learn about her journey to where she is now, it's something worth listening to. Her advice is distinct and conducive.You will learn more about life and yourself by just standing next to her. She's quite wise for someone as goofy as her.
4. She is loud and obnoxious.
This is the only thing I will apologize for. You'll get used to it eventually.
5. I can't physically be there for her but I need you to.
She doesn't externally show that she needs help, but she does. We used to be 3 miles apart, but now we are 150 miles apart. You are probably only a dorm building away, so when she's in tears, please give her a genuine hug for me. Despite our strong friendship, you will most likely understand the situation better than I would.
6. She's ambitious so keep motivating her to follow her dreams.
She will probably change her major every semester, but keep telling her it's a good idea. She's still figuring out how she wants to change the world. Make up for the motivation she's not getting from home.
7. Do the initial potential boyfriend screening.
You know the kind of guy she deserves. Make sure you record his blood type, license plate number and cellphone serial number before I scare him off. The stamp of approval is a long process. We could potentially be in her wedding party, make sure it's a worthy one!
8. You picked an amazing person to be your friend.
I'm sure you've already realized it, but you picked a phenomenal friend. You find yourself comparing yourself to her because she's so involved on campus. She's naturally awkward but is a walking inspiration. I bet you didn't expect to meet someone so high maintenance and so loving but I'm counting on you.
