High school can be stressful. Things are always changing, and sometimes it's hard to see who's real and who's not. During these years, you have to find yourself and decide who you're going to be. Here are 50 things you should know going into high school:
1. It's OK to do something for someone knowing you won't get anything in return.
2. It's OK to fail a test.
3. It's also OK to pass a test and make an A.
4. To live for Jesus means to love others.
5. That includes your math teacher.
6. And the weird kid who sits by himself in class.
7. And yes, even your ex-friend who hurt you.
8. Never forget that the best memories are the ones you can remember.
9. Never ever keep things inside; find a friend and vent to them. But make sure it's one you trust.
10. Try to keep a positive opinion on everyone.
11. Loyalty is golden.
12. So is your innocence.
13. Never settle for someone who half loves you.
14. High school years aren't the best of your life, but make memories as if they're going to be.
15. It's not OK to leave people out.
16. Be your own best friend. Yes. Have friends. But you are either your biggest enemy or your biggest motivator. Your choice.
17. Keep your friends close, and know who the real ones are. But never be afraid to spend time alone.
18. In fact, be CHOOSEY in who you hangout with. Remember you are an average of the five people you spend the most time with.
19. Don't be a slut. Not even a closet slut. Same for the boys. Respect yourself more than that.
20. Don't hold grudges. Life is too short.
21. It's OK to say no.
22. Sports aren't everything, but if you choose them, always strive to be a better athlete than you were yesterday.
23. High school relationships are fun, but way overrated. People change. Don't ignore that.
24. Take the picture.
25. Be yourself.
26. And for goodness sake, it's OK to be different.
27. Pay attention in class.
28. People will laugh, but it's not cool to always be in trouble.
29. Also not cool to be disrespectful. To anyone. Not a teacher. Or someone younger. Be better than that.
30. Suicide will only give your pain to everyone else. It's never your only option -- and no, people won't be happier when you're gone.
31. Don't be judge mental. Talk to the weird kid. Make friends with an outcast.
32. Be kind. You never know what anyone -- even your best friend -- woke up to.
33. Don't date a player.
34. Even when he tells you what you wanna hear.
35. People can change but don't count on it.
36. You deserve mutual relationships.
37. You'll do better if you dress nicer. But it's OK to wear sweats and a tshirt. You do you.
39. It's OK to be the DD.
40. The ACT is overrated. It doesn't define you. Try your best anyways.
41. Mistakes are OK. But learn from them.
42. You are your biggest critic. Take a breath. Pray. Let God lead you. You are fearfully and wonderfully made.
43. Don't ever shame your ex. Boyfriend, girlfriend, even friend. You once loved them. Don't forget that.
44. You were pretty before they told you.
45. Don't worry so much.
46. Pray for your future. Pray for your college friends. Pray for your future husband/wife.
47. Strength comes from hardship.
48. There is always someone watching.
49. Someone always looks up to you. And they're not always younger.
50. Your mom is your biggest fan.
51. Be a silent leader. Speak with actions not your words.
Highschool can be rough and at times you'll feel alone, but never give up, and always let God take your worries. Be the friend you need. Walk the extra mile. Never burn bridges. Be the light and be a leader. You should live to the fullest and avoid having regrets.
Best wishes from a has-been.
